So you wonder if it's worth all the struggle to improve yourself and lead the life you want? Come in and take a look in the future!

Dubiousxy · 2014-11-19T23:19:27+00:00

This is why you don't work 90 hours a week to be a provider bee.

Spend the minimum possible time at work to live a comfortable life. Rest of the time work on yourself, your house, friendships and travelling.

We're only on this earth for 75 years I'll be fucked if I'm going to spend it all working. What has this guy accomplished? He's still going to die in 20 years.

R4F1 · 2014-11-19T15:49:14+00:00

This reminds me about the post about the billionaire who got divorced and his wife wasn't happy with the $1bn settlement; why would you ever get married if you have that much money.

2014-11-19T21:23:50+00:00

Pretty sure this has been posted here before.

I'm thinking roughly 12 days ago, when it was posted originally =P

2014-11-20T00:14:15+00:00

What is really sad is that his wife told him it was his fault he cheatted on her and he agrees with that. He's going to try to work things out with her and be a better guy so She doesn't have to cheat on him again, poor her.

He didn't take his own advice of telling people to not settle down.

2014-11-19T17:28:30+00:00

Thanks for sharing, healthy reminder for me to "strap my boots on" and get to it.

Apollo1982 · 2014-11-20T13:52:06+00:00

Just read the first section, IGNORE ALL COMMENTS AND HIS REPLIES.

I'm going to read his post every morning for a week. Life is too short, don't fucking waste a second of it.

vandaalen · 2014-11-23T21:09:59+00:00

Its not his fault his wife cheated on him. If she was a truly loving and caring wife, she would have controlled her urges to cheat around, tallked to him about why she wasn't attracted to him, and helped pull his life together out of being a workaholic. She knew he was a workaholic, but she did nothing about it. Instead she used that information as an excuse to cheat and to get off without any accountability of her actions. "Oh you made me cheat, it wasn't my fault". She is literally using John's workaholic behavior to cover up her promiscous and unfaithful personality. I honestly don't think she actually cares much about John. If she did, she would have attempted to talk to him about what is happening with him/ how he isn't spending enough time with her/family, and how he has changed.
It was her fault that she cheated, because she could have not cheated and actually helped John come out of his workaholic stupor.

If she started cehating this easily and covering up her accountability using her husband's problems, it is very likely that she was probably cheating on him for more than 10 years. In fact, the boy that he knows as his son might not even be his son, but the son of a man that his wife slept with behind his back.

Title	So you wonder if it's worth all the struggle to improve yourself and lead the life you want? Come in and take a look in the future!
Author	vandaalen
Upvotes	21
Comments	13
Date	November 19, 2014 3:23 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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