"Let the women whine, it is their business."
You come home from work, the wife goes
"Hey guess what! This morning I saw the neighbour's dog taking a poop when it saw me and then I thought that dog was really sexist towards women but then I remembered it was a female dog-"
You get annoyed and there are wrinkles on your forehead because it's a stupid statement.
"Why do you always have a problem with the mundane and stupid shit I tell you why aren't you giving me the respect I deserve I demand far more respect in this house blah blah blah this house was so perfect and peaceful until it's 8pm because that's when you come home and ruin everything blah blah blah!"
Any verbal or body language that communicates annoyance or frustration will propel women to go "bu- but I have it so much harder!"
If a dog runs after you for whatever reason, you stay put because if you (continue to) run, the dog will play along and outrun you, it won't give up. Same with women.
When you complain, what you're communicating to the woman is "I am a hard-working individual." and now she has to prove that she's also hard working. Complaining is an easy way to prove that, the more you complain, the harder you have it, therefore that must mean you're hard-working.
And finally, women have this glorified idea that if they were a man instead, they'd be this perfect man. We think the same for positions of power, such as Presidency or CEOs, we all think when we're young that we'd be the perfect leader of a nation we'd whip this department in shape and we'd implement this policy and make the country better or we have the perfect idea in earning millions of bucks. But we grow up, we learn it's not that easy to be a leader of any particular country or leading a business.
Women don't grow up, they will always think that being a man is far easier because they don't look at the increased responsibilities that men have, only the potential opportunities that a limited amount of men actually have.