Just as a little background so you know where I’m coming from… I grew up in the upper midwest where people were highly religious, women were feminine, and it wasn’t uncommon to marry your high school sweetheart, have a bunch of kids, and live an honest life. That’s what I thought was in store for me, but unfortunately I didn’t put enough effort into myself when I was younger to attract one of those wholesome girls.
Between focusing solely on my engineering degree, starting a business, and dealing with my anxiety, I wasn’t able to start dating until after college. But over the next five years, I moved to a big city, started working out obsessively, dressed nicely, got a graduate degree from a top 3 school, got a bunch of interesting hobbies, and made my first million.
All of a sudden dating apps became popular and I managed to date a few girls for a year or two each. I overlooked a lot of stuff, but it was amazing finally being in a relationship after years of being alone. After my last relationship ended, with my new-found confidence, I was getting tons of first dates with really attractive girls. But the illusion faded with every subsequent girl. Just to give you an idea of what I’m talking about, here are a few examples:
- Had a date lined up with a really hot biology PhD student, showed my friend her picture from her profile, and he said she looked familiar. 5 minutes later, he sends me a link to her seeking arrangement profile.
- First date with an ex-sorority girl and within 10 minutes, she’s bragging about fucking a famous musician on his tour bus. Went on a few dates with a college cheerleader who told me she cheated on her boyfriend to have a threesome with an NFL player.
- I was bored, so I went out with a completely average looking 24 year old who told me she hooked up with 14 guys within the past year and decided to look for a relationship instead after having an abortion.
- Met an adorable 25 year old at church. She told me she had been with 3 people. Got her drunk and she changed that number to 30. Also, her last relationship was with a married man who got off on being cucked.
- Went out with a girl who unbeknownst to me was married. She spent the whole time talking shit about her husband and how she cheats on him when he travels for work.
- Met a girl who grew up a devout catholic. Check her instagram after our first date and she’s got a selfie of her topless in bed next to an NHL player.
- Dated one girl for a few months who I actually really liked. She took a girl’s trip to Vegas and came back with an opened box of condoms.
- Went on a few dates and hooked up with a girl only to get ghosted. I have my friend check her private instagram and she got engaged 2 weeks after we fucked.
I’ve actually got about 50 more stories like this, but I won’t waste your time. I’m just completely lost. It keeps getting worse and worse. Are females really this degenerate? Can you ever trust them? Is it even worth trying? I’m jus so disgusted by every one I meet. I don’t know what to do anymore. I want the life like my father and grandfathers had, but it seems impossible these days.
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