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We talk about theory a lot here on TRP. And that's great, that's how education begins. By sitting in a classroom and learning about the fundamentals. You can't be an engineer without first digesting the basics on the chalkboard and learning about the laws of physics, after all. But eventually you need to actually apply these laws to build some cool shit, and it's no different with sexual strategy.
Sometimes we all need to take a trip to the zoo and see how things are like in the real world outside of our heads. I introduce you to the above story, which is a classic step-by-step instruction on how to make a woman go absolutely hog-wild over you using Dark Triad traits. Let's begin.
Our story begins online.
I really need to rant about this. So about a month ago I matched with a guy on bumble
Right off the bat this sentence tells you everything you need to know about the guy on a surface level. Bumble is an app that intimately rewards the top 20% men more than any other, because girls have to message first. Girls already have enough reluctance to go out with guys in a normal setting, so having a girl message you first means you absolutely must be a confident and attractive man. This dude probably has a chiseled bod, works out, dresses like a champ.
After dinner we went to a bar for more drinks and then after that we went to his friends- it was weird but I felt so comfortable around him I didn’t even think it was weird that I was meeting his friends the first night we met.
He controlled the flow of the date from point A to point Z. See how they went to go meet HIS friends. He magnanimously allowed her to partake in his social sphere, establishing dominance right away. Now she knows who's house this is. His house.
I ended up sleeping over and we were talking about our past and what we want in a relationship. We both told each other we were very into this and wanted it to continue. Saturday morning rolls around and he let me sleep in his bed at his place while he goes for work (wow what a sweetheart right!) - and yes we did have sex but I made it very clear that I was not into this just for sex and we both agreed.
So I go home after I sleep at his place a bit longer and then at night we meet up AGAIN downtown because we were both there for birthdays. We couldn’t wait to see each other again, the connection was unreal. I go back to his house again and we talk more and he tells me he likes me. Side note: I’m very cautious and tried to take this slow but I fell so hard for him it was difficult for me to hold back. Anyway, I slept at his house again and then all day Sunday we cuddled, kissed, had sex and watched movies. It felt like we were dating. This is weird, I had never felt so comfortable around someone so quick. It was scary.
Get 'er tipsy and bang her on the first date. This is Red Pill 101. Life doesn't wait for you, don't wait for it. Sex should happen ASAP.
Finally Sunday night comes around and I finally leave. I was so happy to spend basically the entire weekend with him. On Monday he texts me so now I know he is serious about this and still wants to see me. We talk lots over text over the next couple days and then all of a sudden he stops replying. I give it a couple days because I thought maybe he was busy or maybe something is wrong. Finally after waiting for what seemed like forever I messaged him again asking if everything is okay because at this point I just genuinely want to make sure he is okay since I hadn’t heard from him at all. He replies. “Hey thanks for the messages I’ve had a terrible week and been feeling so off. You haven’t done anything wrong believe me. How’s your week? What’s your plans this weekend?” So I assume everything is okay so I reply to his message hoping we can keep talking - no reply again. So at this point I’m like okay I think something else is up here. I get in my head so much and just felt so broken because I instantly fell for this guy.
Making himself scarce. Far from annoying her, in fact it makes her desire him more because subconsciously she's getting the message that he's a man in demand and has more important things to do than to reply to every one of her texts.
A week goes by and no sign of him. I found out he deleted me off snap chat and blocked me from seeing his Instagram stories (mind you as the days go by I cried almost every day feeling so torn because I felt like I had finally found someone and I was on such a high from the weekend we spent together). Mind you I had his clothes and shoes that I wore home. So, I have come to conclusions in my head that he’s found someone else. I go to his house and drop his stuff off at his door and carelessly text him “your stuff is at your door, honestly really hurtful to ignore me after that. You could’ve just been honest with me” he replies and said he just felt like he had taken too long to reply to me - BULLSHIT.
He lets her have her little tantrum, and keeps it cool the whole time. He doesn't allow her to reel him into her emotional world. Girl is mad at you? "Sorry you're upset, guess I'm a slow texter lol." End of message.
Well it’s been a few weeks now and I found out that he matched with another girl on bumble and they are seeing each other. I know it may seem like I’m making this a big deal but why the fuck am I so hurt by this?? To hurt someone like that and not even have the courage to be honest with me? I feel like shit. PLEASE anyone give me some light on this situation because I have never experienced all these feelings at once about someone and I can’t seem to get over it.
I'll tell you exactly why, honey. It's because women are drawn to aloof Dark Triad men like flies are drawn to cow dung. And as a cherry on top, he starts banging another chick and makes sure OP is there to see it, thereby intensifying her jealously. You just know that despite her teenage-like rage in his post, the next time he texts her "I want to see that booty ;) Want to come over Friday?" she'll be speeding over in an Uber faster than you can say Alpha Male.
Moral of this story: when you fuck a girl, keep your cool no matter what happens next. She'll try to shit test you by acting like it's the end of the world, but keep denying her attention and keep steadying the ship through the storm until it passes. Don't get swept into her emotional female typhoon. This will be an all-too-common scenario that attractive men on dating apps will have to deal with. Better to know what to do in advance.