I've boned enough dudes to have a statistically significant sample to pull from. Maybe 25% proactively put on a condom the first time we sexed. That number dwindled with each encounter. None of them asked for any proof I was on birth control. The rest straight went in raw, or at least tried. Many of these guys didn't know me well enough to trust my background, they just went for it even if we just met a few hours ago.

We talk a lot about poor menz being stuck paying for a kid they didn't want and it's only fair (stomp, stomp, tantrum) they should be able to opt out of fatherhood financially.

I would bet a neat sum that by and large, the vast majority of men are themselves responsible for what they've gotten into and need to stop acting like innocent victims. If the RedPill and such has exposed the clandestine nature of women, why would you expose yourself to such an easily avoidable risk?

Condoms are over 90% effective even w human error and you can dispose of it yourself if you are that paranoid. There are plenty of fits to choose from, buy a variety pack on Amazon for peanuts and jerk off until one feels reasonable. How hard can this be?