Silly topic filled with anecdotal experiences and generalizations but why not.
Anyway growing up I was familiar with the stereotype that men either dont want kids or are indifferent to them (even though I have an excellent father and grandfather but I'm talking mostly about stereotypes), while women are so into babies and basically live for the whole thing. I never in my life experienced what it feels like for people to want kids so I have nothing to go by here, but I observed the following:
Most men want kids strongly and are very idealistic about it.
Almost all.people who actually cant stand kids in general are women.
Almost all people I know in real life who firmly know they never want to have kids, and want to ensure it by sterilization, are women (with rare odd exceptions). I know guys who are not having kids because the woman doesn't want them but I rarely seen them strongly not wanting kids themselves.
Even women I know who are mothers dont talk about kids when with friends and even mention some negative stuff about the experience
In my experience men talk about their kids very idealistically between each other and even men without kids are interested in hearing from fathers for some odd reason. I know many women who find the topic downright boring even if they want kids.
Many men overall seem to enjoy talking to kids and idealizing kids. I know quite a lot of women who maybe dont hate kids but dont really know how to interact with them and dont seek it out.
Of course these are my anecdotal experiences but a recent thread made me think about it more. What do others think? Is mother's instinct a myth?
I just want to add one more thing: I also notice it's usually men who seem more upset about declining birth rates or individual women who say they dont want kids. The bio clock/mother instinct seems to me is something men really want to believe in
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