This something I’ve noticed that trp posters and related forums seem to assume a lot. Anytime a women posts a story about a shitty ex bf they just assume that her bf most have been Chad. Got cheated? It’s your fault for chasing after Chad. Ex bf was a piece of shit and abusive? Must’ve been Chad, I mean those are only reason she stayed in abusive relationship for so long.

This point of view is so silly and creates a black n white picture of men. It runs on the false assumption that unattractive men by virtue of being unattractive automatically treat women great and that attractive men automatically treat women bad.

I for one have never noticed that men’s attractiveness playing a part in how he treated women. I’ve meet attractive men that were perfect gentlemen and ones that were not. Same with unattractive men. Reality is not modeled after some 1980s teen movie.