So number one, I know successful unmarried couples exist. But let’s be real they’re treated as subordinate to married couples. It’s just how it is. No one takes girlfriends or boyfriends seriously after a certain age.

So this line comes up a lot. It’s a classic. It’s intended to be flattering and make the woman feel good. The men saying this know damn well that marriage isn’t a piece of paper and they’re not as committed as they could be/should be.

The woman is usually a place holder until someone he actually feels strongly enough about to marry comes around. Look at how many women were with their exes for years sans marriage and then the ex marries the next woman within 2-3 years.

It’s a nice of way telling women “I don’t wanna marry you but don’t want to be alone. Stick around until I find someone I truly love.”