Over the weekend I met a 25 year old 7.5 at a mutual feiend's Thanksgiving party. She was cute, but in a very plain way. She had glasses, and was dressed conservative but fashionable. We got to chatting and I got her number and we went for coffee yesterday. When we were having coffee some things she said really stood out to me in a good way. Before I start, yes, I know, AWALT, but it was refreshing to hear her say some of this stuff.
First, she said she better tell me about aomething if we're gonna start hanging out. I teased her and played cocky funny about how I haven't made my mind up if we're gonna hang out, then she goes on to tell me.
"I better tell you now, I have 2 tattoos."
Now I've banged chicks with gramps stamps, a tattoo on their foot, another below the belly button, and that dumbass mustache on the finger. 2 tattoos is not a big deal, but she seemed ashamed of them. She goes on to tell me that she has one on her shoulder with a bible verse and her sisters initials. Her twin sister died of Lukemia when she was 16. she went on to say,
"But neither one is visible."
The second was just a flower, but it was small and on her side and barely noticeable.
Man did this stand out like a sore thumb. All I ever hear are chicks talking about how they're "craving more ink." This girl had one because of a death, and another you couldn't see unless she ahowed you. I told her a few weren't bad and I didn't blame her for getting one to remember her sister. She said,
"Really? I'm glad you like it."
Later on we're talking about what she does with her free time. She aaid she spent the the previous weekend before we met making her best friend's daughter a quilt out of old t-shirts. She also was limping when she walked in and said she was working in her garden, covering it for the winter and stepped in a hole and twisted her ankle.
She talked about loving to cook and clean and organize, and how she loved staying in.
She's not a unicorn, because they don't exist, but I was damn near in awe of how she was talking about 100% feminine things, I didn't hear anything stupid about a vacation she's going on, she wasn't on her Got damned cell phone once, and she spent her time doing things a woman should be doing. My dick was hard in the coffe shop. Her modesty made her a lot more attractive.
Before we left she said she felt silly because she talked the whole time and that if I was looking for a old soul that's her.
I don't know if you call those green flags, but since I was introduced to the RP a few years ago I've never had a conversation with a woman like this and it was the most attractive conversation I've ever had. I've been wanting to settle down and get into a LTR but always have hesitations. This is the kind of woman I've wanted to spend time with and its a damned welcome change to the FWB that spends her free time attention whoring on social media or watching 5 hours of reality TV a night.
So let me ask you guys, what are some green flags you look for when considering a LTR?
I will update on how things go with this. I never get my hopes up for women any more, and I've only been in 1 LTR since ingesting the RP, but I hope she is what she portrayed. I am cautiously optimistic.
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