No I am not asking if you like it, agree with it, or find it convenient. (Edit: reread that sentence lol) I want to know if you understand why a lot of women delay sex with a guy they think they’d like to date or maybe marry.

If you do not understand, what confuses you?

As a woman, I can understand perfectly well why a guy on the prowl for easy sex will say or do whatever it takes to convince her to sleep with him.

I don’t relate, because I would never have to try so hard to get sex, but I GET it. I don’t agree with it if the guy is deceptive or disrespectful, but I still get it.

Why do some men not get why women have different objectives and strategies? Men online are constantly making these arguments why women should sleep with the guy right away.

When you talk that way guys, it comes off like you’re so thirsty that for every woman you even speak to, even online, you instinctively start trying to break down her defenses. It’s like you’re on a religion mission to get women to be easier, lol. How come you can’t detach for even a second?

I think men who are a bit older seem to get it more; either they have daughters and suddenly understand the protective feeling, or they are less slaves to hormones.

Telling a woman who wants a husband that her best bet is to put out immediately or she might lose the guy, is like telling men who want true love to buy every woman a new car after the first date, and then cross his fingers he doesn’t attract a gold digger. (Edit: before more sex =/= car posts, this is just an example of a screening process for men, not ah exact metaphor. You guys are terrified of gold diggers, so you shouldn’t buy cars an jewelry for a woman you don’t trust yet. That will drive away the gold diggers who don’t even like you. For women scared of falling for a guy who only wants her body, she shouldn’t share it right away.)