Hey everyone. I'm a long time lurker, first time poster. I swallowed the red pill about 3 months ago after going through a bad breakup where I had severe oneitis. Through this time, I've concentrated on myself and I feel that I'm becoming a better man. A conversation with one of my friends reinforced the ideas that I have learned here. Hopefully I can help anyone on the fence about how females truly are.

I go to a university where I study engineering and I have a friend, we will call her Sarah, who is about an 8. Sarah and I do a lot of work together and we used flirt back in forth. We went to the movies and to dinner a few times but nothing came of it. I became an orbiter and I eventually cut that shit out when I swallowed the red pill. Before I swallowed the red pill, she would talk to me about her problems and invite me to do things solely with her. I felt more like a support figure than a real friend. I showed her my interest in her but I was friend zoned. I eventually stopped being an orbiter and I do things with her only when I want to (thanks to you guys). I even forced her to hook me up with one of her friends which see did hesitantly. She picked the ugliest one and the date went awful. She asked me the next day how it went and smiled when I told her how crazy the girl was.

Sarah has been "dating" a 34 year old physical therapist for about a month now. He provides things for her, fucks her, but she is embarrassed of him. She even told me one time when we were hanging out that she doesn't want her family or friends to find out because he is a lot older than her. Although she proclaims this, she also said she enjoys spending time with him. Today she was complaining about him and it made me curious. Usually I tell her to quit complaining, change the subject, or ignore her. I told her, "Sarah, I know the only reason you want anything to do with him is because he has money and provides things for you". After saying this, her hamster went wild telling me that he doesn't really do anything for her, which I know isn't true, and that she doesn't care anything about how much success he has. I then told her, "You are more attracted to his success than him. Am I right?". She said, "uhhh..... well..... yeah, you're right. I find it sexy that he is successful and that's mostly why I'm attracted to him I guess"

By doing this, I was confirmed in my belief of the Red Pill. Women always want someone better and something better. Girls like Sarah will be the same that complain when men her age will date younger women when she hits the wall. Women are looking for an upgrade constantly. Through this experience, I learned to continue concentrating on myself and become successful for myself. Once you do this, you'll have no problem getting hotter women. Keep going strong my brothers.