A Review of the Posting Guidelines for Male Contributors

JackGetsIt · 2017-04-23T18:06:29+00:00

I don't think it's a bad thing if the ban hammer comes out more.

Comments that are blatantly disrespectful or attacks should be a swift ban. Or at the very least a serious warning.

It would also help if all posts had a 'general male advice welcome' or 'female advice only' or 'endorsed male advice only'

As a frequent male commentor sometimes I don't know if a thread wants my input or not(I try not to post in these cases) and it would help if it's always clear so that myself and other male users don't overstep. I'm also sure on occasion I've stepped over a line that wasn't intended as we men may not be attuned to what's actually being covertly asked in a thread despite our redpill aware background.

I think the frequent male posters know that their presence could be permanently banned and we don't want that. So shitty male advice and shitty male behavior hurts us as well especially if it leads to an outright ban.

I really don't want this community to fail and if the mods think that a full male ban would preserve the community I'd respect that as well. There's just so few thriving groups like this one on the internet that it's survival is vitally important.

I feel that RPW and groups like it are going to grow in a big way in the next 2-10 years as more women wake up to the lies they have been told by feminism and the media.

If RPW is still around as Paglia/Sommers feminism inevitable arises I look forward to seeing the wave of new users and discussions and would be very very proud to be even the smallest part of it.

plein_old · 2017-04-24T15:12:00+00:00

Great idea.

If you let men disrespect women, you create a space where only damaged or weak women will feel comfortable participating.

ecossecho · 2017-04-23T23:52:04+00:00

This is really good news. Thanks for doing this, mods.

Willow-girl · 2017-04-24T01:54:42+00:00

I'll make the Nyquil-Junkie behave! Or try to, anyway. He's a mischievous one ... :-)

tempintheeastbay · 2017-04-24T04:17:40+00:00

while we're discussing unhelpful posts, can I ask an embarrassingly dumb Q? how do I downvote? (Or can I?) I've been assuming I can't.

TurlessTiger · 2017-04-23T16:44:59+00:00

Huh, has this become that much of a problem lately? I usually read posts but not comments, so I hadn't noticed.

LifeHasLag · 2017-04-25T13:59:50+00:00

The ol' list of biases, pals. Check it out. Familiarize yourself. Be aware. Every human being has multiple biases at work practically all the time, so be aware of your common ones and how to deal with it. Also deal with others' instead of pitching a fit against the person and not addressing the bias.

TheBunk_TB · 2017-04-27T01:17:46+00:00

I believe that thin skin has prevented some of the best advice from being shared. Lord knows I have just not typed something and screamed out loud a few times instead. I secretly pan for Intel so I don't want to get "s-canned".

[deleted] · 2017-04-26T12:00:22+00:00

contributing had become less helpful, more hindering

there's truth telling and then there's being an asshole.

You once deleted an anti-feminist comedic post I made. So just keep a difference between this two things or else this subreddit will begin declining and everyone will be singing this.

bastardstepchild · 2017-04-24T13:46:06+00:00

I predict two months before this sub becomes a feminist safe space.

pewpsprinkler2 · 2017-04-25T04:21:32+00:00

I was banned by OP even though I hadn't posted in days. She gave me a 24 hour ban several days back for this comment and her response is here. "take 24 hours" because I "need to learn to play nice" led to this response when I asked what rule I broke, then I was muted so I couldn't reply.

Now, several days later, despite my not having posted anything new since the ban, OP decides to permaban me out of nowhere.

Honestly, this feels like a power grab by OP to impose her will on the community. This will necessarily cause the sub to become the same kind of mindless circlejerk that all the other aggressively modded subs are. Free will = ban. Unpopular opinion = ban. Have a penis and don't act like a beta orbiter? ban.

Red pill philosophy is not about coddling people who are delusional. It is not about playing the part of social worker with a retarded kid giving high 5s and gold stars for being able to take a poop unassisted. It is about tough love and hard truths.

When OP says this:

We want men's input but women are not going to come here to have men shit all over them.

Any criticism is now "shitting all over" someone. No criticism allowed. Redpillwomen is basically Erdogan's Turkey or Putin's Russia now. OP is playing the part of dictator.

We love /u/JackGetsIt and /u/Loneliness-Inc, /u/VigilantRedRooster and a few others I'm forgetting. They're honest, they're tactful, they're red pill.

Those men aren't red pill, they are just the beta orbiters who are telling you what you want to hear, and who consistently refuse to criticize anything. I don't know JackGetsIt, but his comment on this topic is typical beta sellout behavior. Loneliness-Inc has serious personal problems and a disaster of a marriage, and uses RPW to get female affirmation and attention. He has invested a lot of time and energy into trying to get people here to like and praise him. I had it out with him a while back when I gave him the hard advice he needed, and he hamstered like crazy in response. I have no respect for him, and in fact my ban was because I disagreed with his claim that men and women can't be friends.

So OP's comment really proves to me that OP's desire is to turn this into just another sanitized bullshit safe space like r/relationships, where saying anything unpopular or "not nice" = ban.

No truly red pilled alpha male would be willing to accept the dominance of OP and censor themselves for fear of invoking OP's wrath. I had already stopped posting out of disgust for OP. I take my ban with pride. Enjoy making a mockery of everything red pill stands for.

SabirahNova · 2017-04-23T18:34:15+00:00

this being a feminine space and all

if you're going to make this a safe space and/or require tone policing, it's not redpill and should be called something else. yes, there are people who are just total shitbags, but it's easy for people with fragile egos to confuse legitimate redpill criticism with personal attacks... particularly discussions about age/weight for women. the red pill is bitter and hard to swallow. no one said this is easy.

Title	A Review of the Posting Guidelines for Male Contributors
Author	theScarlettWoman
Upvotes	59
Comments	73
Date	April 23, 2017 4:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/672zyv/a_review_of_the_posting_guidelines_for_male/
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