I find it bizarre at my job that nearly every male I work with has a common theme umongst their relationship troubles. Most are married and have kids. Or divorced and have kids. Almost all of them echo the same things. Usually they are the emotional punching bag. The wife or ex wife or girlfriend is never happy. They don't want to work. Nothing is ever enough. Their is a constant need to keep their wife happy. Often the woman wants to see other people. Split up, sell the house. Keep the man on child support and stay at home and not work. Now In nearly every instance the man sounds defeated. The man never cheated. The guy always claims he did nothing but try to take care of his family. Most of these men work 60 to 70 plus hours a week. The women they are with never seem to know what they want or what's keeping them from being happy. What's going on? Why am I hearing this so much.... It's not just a few men. It's nearly every man I work with. Is this common amongst men around my age? I myself have gone through some of these things with my exwife. But I never new this was a common issue. Thank jeebus I never had kids. But damn. I feel like I'm living in the twilight zone. Is this common where you guys work?