Y'all love to talk about how women are solipsistic and stuck in our own world (narcissists) but I've seen this solipsism among men in this sub more than anything. So here's the main area I'm seeing this solipsism in.
The dating market. Y'all can't seem to get it in your skull that there is a different sexual dynamic between men and women. Every single day a man on here finds a way to worm his way into an unrelated conversation and vent about how easy it is for women to be approached for sex and they don't have to work at all and "most women are attractive to men just for being women", just feeling sorry for themselves. And have the nerve to get mad at women for speaking up and saying the shit isn't validating. So stuck up their own behind it's ridiculous.
For the 1000th time, it's not validating to the average woman to have someone offering you something when they're offering that same thing to everyone else. It doesn't mean you're attractive and it doesn't mean that person values you. I don't know what it's going to take to make you understand that.
It's common sense. Someone hands you a pamphlet for a club and you get excited until they hand it to everyone else.
The men on this sub have no self worth or self esteem and, given the chance, would sell themselves for a sandwich. Instead of just taking that as their own personal trait and looking at reality, they stay in their own world and project those feelings onto us. I have low self esteem and would jump on a woman the minute she smiles at me, so you should do the same thing. Oh if I were a woman I'd have sex with anyone for validation, therefore all women are doing it.
To me that sounds like solipsism. You want to look in our grass and talk about how green it is, meanwhile yours is brown and dying.
Most of us who don't have self esteem that's dragging through the mud are getting validation from men wanting us, as in complimenting our looks, buying us stuff, etc. So if you want to whine about women having it easy in that regard, then you're not wrong. But this solipsistic "I'm horny and desperate and you're getting everything I want therefore YOU'RE HAPPY" mentality, that's stepping on women's toes every day on this sub needs to stop. You're not about to step on my toes and talk about how happy I am in my life because you have low self esteem and want to project. Not today.
So
That was my announcement. The whining was getting to be too much. I had to address it.
Carry on.
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