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Summary: A woman and her husband have been married for three months and already she has started to get out of shape. Admittedly she's not fat (115 lbs) but she's probably extremely unhealthy looking and wimpy with no curves, based on her post. Whatever the reason, the husband - who goes to the gym 5 days a week and is probably jacked - admits to her that he's not turned on. Tries to get her to join him at the gym, do some kegel exercises or shit like that.

Now, this woman had a baby 5 months ago and she uses this excuse to its full potential. She whines and complains about not having the willpower or energy to get on a treadmill or pick up a dumbbell every now and then.

She decides, of course, that the best thing to do is not get in shape but rather visit a counselor! Because "talking out your feelings" always is a good way to ignite passion in a relationship, right guys???

Very sad situation for the guy, and very eye-opening. Remember, women simply do not have the inner strength or drive to improve themselves unless you make them do it. If you want your girl to have a nice ass and flat/toned stomach, you have to take charge and get her to that gym. Just whining to her and saying "but honnneeyy, I'm not attracted anymore :(((( " will only make you come across as a sniveling beta and will further eat away at her already-diminishing attraction towards you.

Or better yet, just don't get married.