Body language is 80% of communication.

I've been with my current girl for a year and a half now and I've used the following technique to amazing effect. I want to share it with all of you out there who are struggling in your LTRs. If we assume the above statement to be true (regardless of what the actual percentage is) then it follows that touch is the most powerful communicative signal we can send.

So here's the technique. Never talk to your woman about serious shit unless you're holding her in a dominant position. Meaning, she's resting in your arms. The way I hold my girl communicates to her very soul that she is MINE. And that when I'm holding her we're in MY WORLD.

Of course, during the conversation I call it our world, but that's just for the ego. Deep down she knows that I'm the stable rock in her life. I'm her link to objective reality. To a place that doesn't ebb and flow based on her current emotional state. It's a place where she can find the explanations for life that a overly emotional nature can't see.

Now, what I mean about serious shit is relationship topics. In what direction do you want the relationship to go? What actions and commitments do you expect out of her? And what are you committing to doing to move the relationship in that direction? In other words, in an LTR there is cooperation required. But you're the leader. You decide the direction. And it's your job to constantly get the best out of your girl--to push her beyond her boundaries. But that means you must set an example by constantly setting new goals for yourself and meeting them. This is what gives the technique soul and authenticity.

It's also important to recognize that 90% of the shit she says is her venting her emotions. Motivated by those emotions she will try to dominate you through linguistic tricks. This move is only possible if you take her game seriously when you're not holding her. Because when you ARE holding her, the game fails miserably. You know instantly when she's puffing up her chest and putting on a show. And you don't even have to say anything back, you just make physical gestures and moves that show her you're dominating and that these words are totally empty.

When she's done venting and completely yours (her ego is subdued) that's when you take the lead with your words and paint reality for her. In my case she's very quite during these times (and these times are quite rare--maybe once or twice per week). But what happens is, a couple days down the line we'll be bullshitting and she'll throw in the stuff that I originally told her into the conversation as if those were her ideas and intentions all along!

She creates the illusion of her own agency in the relationship. Don't get me wrong, she's a vital part of the relationship and she does have real freedom but never on issues which I've deemed non-negotiable. She also has the freedom to leave the relationship any time she wants. But she knows that she'll be hard pressed to find a man of my value. For her this move isn't even in the realm of possibility.

What's happening in our relationship now is that we're gradually becoming complimentary forces to each other. I'm the dominant creative force that generates a vision and drives us toward that vision. While she's the receptive force that gives aesthetic shape to that vision. I drive her to move into new unexplored territory, while she tests my limits to make sure I'm on my game. She also helps me look and feel my best, and keeps our place tidy. Because she knows that when I'm out in the world hunting, I better be on my best game and I don't have time to worry about menial shit. In other words, I'm responsible for the big picture and the motivation, she's responsible for the details.

I've also learned a SHITLOAD from her about how women function. Both her and other women. And how bluntly aware (in their own emotional way) women are of the abundance of wimps and pussies out there. Women are getting more and more lost out there as the authentic alpha male is becoming a rarer breed. And they know it, even though they'll never admit it openly.

So, to all the bitter guys out there who are just starting TRP journey don't fucken worry. Just work on creating and asserting yourself and in a year or two you will be a HOT commodity. The truth for women is that the more dominance and control they wield the sadder their lives become. They just can't admit this consciously because feminism has warped their minds.

Which brings me to my other thoughts on LTRs and TRP

The fact that there are less and less authentic alpha males is really really bad for society. Really bad. Which is why I strongly disagree with the position many of you hold that getting into a LTR is a bad move.

To me, the most advanced stage of game is the ability to raise powerful sons and daughters as a means to fix the current imbalance. You can't do this outside of a LTR. The world needs a generation of men who know how to be men and women who know how to be women. We don't need more whipped pussy boys raised by single moms or entitled "daddy's little princesses." The ultimate real alpha male is a present, intelligent, and caring father who teaches his children the brutality of the world and how to deal with it.

Having said all that a thought just came to mind. Here are my stages of TRP:

  1. Bitterness - discovery of TRP truth

  2. (a) Working on yourself - the heroes journey (b) Gaming sluts - making up for lost time

  3. LTR - taking up the seemingly impossible challenge

  4. Family - building something greater than yourself and changing the world

MGTOW is a blind alley. LTRs is where the true challenge is. Your thoughts?