Remember, you are here because of a lack of male role models in your life

dudesyouknowme · 2014-12-19T14:06:25+00:00

That's why I am here. My dad is a nice guy and was physically present but he is beta bucks all the way.

thredditsowaway · 2014-12-19T14:15:03+00:00

Not just a lack, for some of us it was a choice. My father was reasonably present in my childhood, and offered relatively RP advice when I first started experiencing the SMP. The problem was that my mother's BP advice made me feel a lot better and was a lot easier to swallow.

I don't have the heart to tell her that her protectiveness is the root of all my problems because I know she meant well. I'd rather blame myself for choosing the easy path over the right one, but when you're like 10 years old it's hard to see where each one really goes.

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peakmen · 2014-12-19T14:30:34+00:00

My dad is the most alpha guy I know, he's the guy that has banged 200+ women and even though he's 51 he still has 25 year olds going after him. The problem with that is that he left my mum when I was 5 and I didn't reconnect with him till I was 18. I missed out on all the proper male upbringing and it caused so much damage.

Since the discovery of TRP and bonding with my dad I have been amazed at all the bullshit I used to believe. Its like my life has colour again and I have energy and confidence to do things.

sunwukong155 · 2014-12-19T15:48:45+00:00

Great post and you have an awesome mindset, but here is a warning.

I hate to say it, but I want to be the opposite of my father. Tougher, stronger, fitter, masculine, you get the picture.

The opposite of crazy is also crazy. If you have read No More Mr Nice Guy, that should ring a bell. There is a large segment of that book that talks about young boys who see their fathers as failures and strive to be the opposite of their notion of their father. If this book is not a part of your self improvment plan, I would add it in.

I challange you to take a more careful look at your father, and while recognizing his many faults, try to find good things about him. You may notice you and him share more traits and habits than you think.

loin_fruit · 2014-12-19T14:13:22+00:00

Its true. Haven't seen my dad since I was 5 and I'm 24. When you have too many betas and too many women in your life, there is no back bone. There is no way of learning or seeing how women really get the gina tingles.

gimmieareason · 2014-12-19T17:27:31+00:00

Interesting. My situation is completely the opposite. While my dad is definitely getting older, he's still one of the most alpha, RP guys that I know. And I never noticed it until I grew up and found this subreddit. He always holds his frame, and he isn't scared of anyone, it doesn't matter how big they are.

Some day I'm going to be just like him. Maybe not today, but its a beautiful journey ahead and I am on a mission

Anderfail · 2014-12-19T14:33:19+00:00

My dad was and is an alpha, but I am here because he literally fed me nothing but bullshit my whole life. He would tell me to do always bluepill shit and then do the opposite in his personal life. Everything came natural to him as my mom always defers to him for everything.

While I have a good relationship with him now, I am somewhat bitter at never having had a single real relationship conversation with my dad where he told me the way of the world and why I had to be a certain way. So while I can look at him and respect him for being a good dad, I still never really had a real male role model to look up to.

Most of my friends are in similar positions. Our fathers were natural alphas, they just assumed we knew it all and didn't realize how feminized everything had become since they were kids.

vengefully_yours · 2014-12-19T15:56:35+00:00

My dad and mom were rp, except for what mom told me about girls. I learned from dad how to pick up chicks, because dad is a salesman. He is adept at reading people and then manipulating them to where they "feel" like they got a good deal. One of my brothers and I have that skill, the rest don't.

I listened to mom and society about how to keep agirl around, and it drove them away. Now I understand that to keep a steady flow of pussy coming, I need to stay how I am while im getting to know them, or trying to fuck them. When I'm that way, girls throw themselves at me, its kinda funny to watch. Now I know exactly what to do if I want to get rid of them. Be nice, kiss her ass and ask for some pussy. Works flawlessly.

2014-12-19T17:03:02+00:00

my dad has always been prevalent in my life and happily married to my mom for almost 40 years. He is a Pastor of a huge Church and runs that Church and his family in the most stoic and alpha manner I've ever seen. TRP just reinforces everything I've always learned from him

2014-12-19T17:21:47+00:00

My dad was out of the picture all of my life. Parents divorced when I was 8. Mom always took me to baseball practice and games. dad never bothered going. Dad never bothered with anything at all. He was too busy banging some slut on the side. The funny thing is he married a domineering bitch of a woman after divorcing my mother.

I see the difference in my sisters 2 sons by different fathers. Son #1 has the typical alpha male dad. Physically fit, firefighter headstrong independent type of guy. His son is outgoing, physically fit, and the same alpha type personality as his dad. IMO he slightly above average in looks , but he has always had the hottest of girlfriends (8.5's).

Son #2 has the meek, quiet dad. The loner type content in his own little world. Son #2 is average looking but does terrible with the females and has few if any friends in general. Has no game, thinks orbiting is game. He once had a crush on a girl a few months back. He told me he was going to send her some flowers ($150.00 worth). I knew nothing of the girl, but I knew him. I told him he would be much better off spending that money on himself, or even flushing it down the toilet. He refused to listen. The girl has a boyfriend now and doesn't give son #2 the time of day.

fiat_lux_ · 2014-12-19T18:32:41+00:00

However, I was always coddled, and told that "being boystrous" isnt everything. Or that "you don't have to go to the gym" etc etc.

My father was a decent role model. Dedicated, diligent, technically intelligent (STEM PhDs)

... but he was a classic beta. To top it off, we were dirt poor, so I was told to focus 100% on academics. Nothing else mattered. Or so they claimed.

They ended up being happier as I got physically stronger late in HS and then throughout college. They claimed to only care about academics, but I will never forget how proud they were about successful boxing bouts or standing on my back as I did pushups.

Adult role models are great, but don't just rely on adult role models. Become an adult. There's still time.

Your parents are not meant to merely be reached. They are meant to be surpassed

X-Coordinate · 2014-12-19T14:50:42+00:00

Amen brother.

I personally didn't know if my father was a beta because he died four months after I was born... My older brother was 15 when that happened and he did what he could as a male role model but you know, he lost his father that day too. Of course, this had an impact in my upbringing and I had to face many difficulties growing up such as bullying, lack of direction and a tendency to run away from whichever problem I had. No matter what, my mother was there to comfort as OP says in his post. My older brother tried to snap me out of this dynamic and we had a lot of fights while growing up because I wanted to stay on my mother's lap and he'd already experienced the "real world" as he used to tell me and I bet he knew exactly how this was going to end. Now I value my brother more than ever and I don't really blame my mother for anything that has happened because all of us lost something the day my father died... It's just that now I've seen things as they really are and that's what prepared me to start making changes.

Sorry for the blog post OP, your post really hitted home for me.

TankVet · 2014-12-19T17:01:59+00:00

I'm here because I like reading the stuff. My dad was and is an alpha male badass. I model myself after him, I try to be like him, I love my dad.

I also try to do things better. I try to be more of a surprise than him. My dad is a tough guy, a get it done kind of guy but everybody always saw him coming. I don't like that, I am more effective as a person when I am unexpected, unanticipated. His mantra is "never let 'em see ya sweat," mine is more "never let 'em see ya coming."

I'm here reading the stuff because I agree with some of it. I dismiss some of it too. Also, some of you write extremely well.

94redstealth · 2014-12-19T17:26:49+00:00

I disagree. my father was a strong make figure in my life. a man's man. I learned so much from him. but I spent more time with society than him and society beat me into a ball of blue pill mush.

antariusz · 2014-12-19T17:33:38+00:00

I'm like a few other people here, my dad used to be pretty alpha in his youth, but he and my mom divorced when I was young, because he cheated on her with a younger woman. So I spent a lot of my youth hearing my mom badmouth my dad and I grew up wanting nothing to be like my dad. Then later on, my dad became really beta with his new wife, and would complain all the time about her nagging and would lie all the time to her, but I got the wrong lesson from that, not to do what you want, but instead I learned to keep woman happy just do whatever they ask... And obviously that didn't work out for me, I was a virgin until 26, and I thought that's just how relationships "were". And I wanted nothing to do with it.

Dev_on · 2014-12-19T18:23:32+00:00

I had a bunch of really shitty ones growing up, and they taught me what not to do...

does that work?

zephyrprime · 2014-12-19T20:10:28+00:00

It's not just our parents. It's a society that constantly tells you that gender roles are morally wrong. Well too fucking bad because it is precisely men who live up to the male gender role who are attractive to women. Women may espouse pc bullshit out of their mouths but in reality, they vote with their pussy.

TekkomanKingz · 2014-12-19T20:50:19+00:00

Many males on here actually have several prominent male role models who succeed financially and otherwise. But they lack deep mastery of the concepts surrounding our biological imperative and natural gender dynamics.

Some of us are further along than others but we all have a ways to go towards our own personal goals and journeys.

man0man · 2014-12-19T21:49:24+00:00

My dad is the most red pill guy i've ever met and he doesn't even try. Unfortunately that meant he was never around with all the women he was boning on the side. The result is pretty much the same.

2014-12-19T20:27:00+00:00

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jerrytheman1998 · 2014-12-19T15:44:39+00:00

My dad is naturally red pill and as far as I know doesn't read or know about this whole thing. He has minor beta qualities I see sometimes but overall I was brought up with some basic RP principles.

What I'm meaning to say is you don't necessarily have to be without a male role model to find the info here helpful, it's good to read either way

admirals_go_nuts · 2014-12-19T16:20:59+00:00

Amen, dad died here, age 4

NabroleonBonaparte · 2014-12-19T17:37:23+00:00

It's crazy knowing this and thinking about how things played out to get to where I'm at now.

My paternal grandfather died when my dad was young and he grew up beta which led to my parents divorce. It sucked so bad that I made a vow to learn how relationships work to have a perfect marriage and never let my child experience the same.

Went hella blue pill then fell to oneitus. Found TRP and finally have the tools to accomplish that goal...

Now I have absolutely no desire for marriage anymore. Just spin plates and set a RP example for others not in the know.

Funny how life plays out eh?

ConcealingFate · 2014-12-19T17:59:07+00:00

My mom racks in the cash and my dad worked dead end jobs. The irony. She said she liked him because he was a nice guy and a great father but had she known he'd never get an actual career, she probably wouldn't have gone for him.

CornyHoosier · 2014-12-19T18:09:25+00:00

I am an only-child who was raised by all women. I had to learn everything about being a man, finances & living healthy on top of all the standard things everyone learns.

wee_woo · 2014-12-19T18:09:38+00:00

Man, at least you had a father present in your life, for better or for worse.

My father left my mother and I and decided to emulate King Henry VIII. He is currently on his fifth wife.

2014-12-19T18:20:13+00:00

my dad has always been a man of few words, quite stoic, treated the radfem brigade as a shit test throughout the years...

but although he was present, he was a stoner who kept his attention on work, weed, and his car. my mom got huge, housework never got done (no steps were installed for the back door for over 10 years), and he cried in front of my mom when his mother died

shortly after that, dad suspected she was cheating. he left a note and was GONE. he left her after 19 years because she started having GNOs. he was sick of her shit and went his own way

my dad is a red pill man who made few mistakes. he just didn't invest in his son or daughter beyond just being present in their lives

I will say I've learned from watching him passively, but i didn't learn enough from him to be able to take on huge things like marriage and kids... divorce is the reason I found TRP, and TRP is the reason I was able to bounce back stronger than ever

Muzzygooner · 2014-12-19T18:29:33+00:00

My dad was a nice guy, but he wasn't there most of the time, and when he was,he was a wimp. I grew up with 4 women and no men in my life. My mom is the kindest person ever, but I didn't need that growing up.

2014-12-19T18:35:07+00:00

Yup, I am the son of Dr. Betabux. Women have been walking over him and exploiting his wealth and good nature for as long as I've know him.

I was never taught to be a man by him. To this day he still has no clue. He has always talked about how now I am successful and wealthy women should be lining up for me and a good relationship is just around the corner. He doesn't understand that this is. Blue pill Betabux look on life. I am here because dr. Betabux has failed me.

jungle-life · 2014-12-19T18:43:00+00:00

I wouldn't change a damn thing about my father.

PlanB_pedofile · 2014-12-19T18:53:36+00:00

My dad was a slight womanizer. My siblings are all half siblings but he stayed with my mom. He also made sure i had a relationship with my siblings. They even lived with us. They were half blood but we were together like full blood.

I didn't like how my dad cheated on my mom. With that i swore loyalty even though i shoulda dated around more.

He got overweight but after the first heart attack he tried slimming down. I can't assign alpha or beta. He tried many things, failed many things. Running a bar, teaching, ran for election, management, ended being a pipe fitter. Kept the family together. Paid child support all the way to 23. Died at 55 from a sudden heart attack.

As much as i hated his bad traits. The cheating, the debt, poor financial decisions. I admire his good traits such as honor, family, and trying even though not succeeding.

I just wished i developed that steadfastness earlier than being idle for nearly 10 years. Oh well. Best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The 2nd best time is now.

GiganticTree · 2014-12-19T22:57:25+00:00

On the contrary my Dad is pretty alpha, it's just that he was too busy with work and doing his own thing all the time that my Mom was the who ended up raising me 99% of the time

lloopy · 2014-12-19T19:36:37+00:00

Same here. Dad's so fat he can't tie his shoes without struggling.

He's got a girl he buys stuff for so she'll talk to him, but there's no sex for him, and this will never change. From now til the end of his life.

For me, I want something better.

Red_Invictus · 2014-12-19T20:10:35+00:00

Well said. We have found a way here, and must never forget it, how to be our own man in this world, forging ahead.

That being said, I'm glad to see more encouraging posts instead of "shut the fuck up, you're doing xyz wrong, blah blah blah and go lift faggot /brotalk".

We are NOT here to coddle our fellow men, but we aren't here to berate them either. We're here to improve ourselves.

Thelaterbloomerstory · 2014-12-19T21:10:28+00:00

So much on life depends on the kind of parents you had. It has an impact on how you think, what kind of school you go to, and even how you behave around others. We don't want to accept it because it is tough to do so and because we have no outcome on it but a lot of how we turn out has to do with genetics, parents, and the circumstances we were placed in during our pasts. It even affects us into adulthood because we are constantly trying to change the way we think about things which can be tough.

Society expects you to have it all figured out by the age of 21 but the fact is you only become independent at the age of 18 in most cases. If you have awful parents, you aren't even independent at 18 because they won't let go of you and let you be on your own. You have to fight for your independence. Then, from 18-21 you are doing everything to get rid of the beliefs that were pushed on you for 18 years.

Society does not understand this, they want results, they think everyone grows up in the same ideal household they grew up and gets the same love they got growing up.

Jaereth · 2014-12-19T21:51:27+00:00

That's why I am here. My dad was a total RP man. He never cared to teach me any of that or spend that much time with me though. Had to learn it on my own, and looking back, I really wish I would have wayyyy sooner in life rather than later.

Make sure your sons know what's up guys.

2014-12-20T00:33:31+00:00

Brother,

Thanks for sharing. It's good to know where you came from, but my advice from personal experience as an only child of a "broken" home of divorced parents and an over-protective mother, is: don't over analyze your situation or your past.

Own up to your responsibility to yourself and focus on what you CAN control and what you CAN do going forward. We are humans. We are influenced by our environment. We are also influenced by our habits and our responses and our perceptions of our environment.

I am at a similar position. "Waking up" and understanding we want to create a better version of our selves while being fully aware of all that surrounds us, including resources that are helpful ($, shelter, human interaction & contact, gym/home workout equipment/our own bodies, etc.) and those things or people around us that are toxic/negative/NOT helpful for us becoming a better version.

I personally love the mindset of crafting and becoming the best version of ourselves (whatever that vision looks like as individuals) so that just by our presence we can inspire and influence the same in those around us. We can't control how they respond (positively or negatively) but we can control our own response to their response and keep on going forward.

I think you will love this video and find inspiration in this because I also find much inspiration in movies, actors, & characters who display strength, courage, determination, and the ability to persevere. Be the hero of your own movie.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YTuElM6T50w

BGE13 · 2014-12-20T01:55:31+00:00

I know where you're coming from, man. I was raised by a single mother, coddled a lot more than I should have been (though not to a totally ridiculous extent), but I was lucky to have a couple of great male role models in my late teens and early twenties. One of them taught me to play the guitar, the other taught me philosophy and general tough-mindedness. I don't know where the fuck I would be without those guys.

2014-12-20T01:58:19+00:00

From the series Marco Polo, Kublai Khan says when speaking of his father, "I realized that I had to become the man I wished my father was."

might not be an actual quote from the real kublai, but it delivers the message

Hughtub · 2014-12-20T02:09:18+00:00

I almost think lifting weights by itself is the majority of the solution. When you have in your recent memory lifting heavy shit around and pushing your body to its max, you are NOT going to put up with any soft shit from someone else. It's no wonder that fit people get a reputation for being tough-minded.

2014-12-20T06:03:40+00:00

Yeah man. My Dad wasn't always fat. But when he got a gut that's what freaked me out to get the the gym. Approaching six pack now. It's legit motivation.

DoxasticPoo · 2014-12-19T21:59:43+00:00

Just remember, Dr Glover often talks about men who want to be opposite of their Fathers... and usually, the opposite of crazy is still crazy.

It's best to look at your Father objectively. Assess the positive qualities, and emulate, then assess the negative qualities, and don't emulate.

You're Father can't be completely worthless. You're just emotionally tied up in being let down as a son. Get over it. See his positive qualities too.

Diece · 2014-12-19T14:25:28+00:00

So, what are some good role models for a guy that had none? I feel having a list would really help guys.

2014-12-19T19:57:35+00:00

Yeah, I grew up in a feminine environment full of women, without my father, i even knew or felt then what it will raise me wrong and make me looking at the world from the wrong scope. I was so happy I found TRP to use it to forge me into a man with goals and ambitions. Even my family( all women except my uncle who didmt give a shit about me, and now I realize why) noticed something changed in me after months of face to face contact.

2014-12-19T21:13:44+00:00

Here are my role models: George Carlin, Dave Ramsey (just money, not religion), Bill Hicks, Adam Carolla, Charlemange the God.. That's what I got for now.

oldredder · 2014-12-20T00:08:39+00:00

Really? I feel the opposite. I'm here to observe the most up to date updates to what I've already seen & lived that women have a lower quality of integrity & do harm to men, and society in general is built to enslave us since we're the work-horses, to see the fine details of how that plays out around the world.

I never lacked a strong male role model. I was raised by a single father.

I'm sure I can't be the only one.

Mihawk01 · 2014-12-20T00:27:17+00:00

Good post.

Just getting heartbroken is probably not the best advice... haha.

But really for some reason got me thinking. Obviously you just meant this in a passing remark, meaning that it is okey to fail... but it has struck with me for some reason.

The main reason being that if getting rejected by women is seen as being a big thing, then you are soooo fucking far back from where you need to be, it is fucking crazy. You cannot have fucking feelings for women this way... you fuck her, make fun of her, tease her, get her to make you dinner, and suck your dick after. Then you go to sleep, even better if you ignored her after getting your dick suck, in the morning she will love you more for it. That is it. Nothing else. There is no love. If she finds a dick more suitable, she will blow you off in a second. That is why always have a couple of plates.

So yeah, getting heartbroken is not even advisable when you are 15 (fuck her, bitches come and go, get 5 new plates is the solution and the motto), never mind any older than that. Very blue pill mentally to even mention that shit.

So yeah, never even think about feeling any shit like that. It is never acceptable. If you do, go fuck some bitches. You will be more than fine after that.

Prattler26 · 2014-12-20T01:30:47+00:00

We are a direct results of our parents upbringing, but blaming it on them is easy and pointless.

In order to take responsibility for yourself, you must assign responsibility to your parents. You will never truly take responsibility for yourself without doing the same to your parents.

2014-12-20T01:59:23+00:00

we are a generation of boy grown by women

I_HaveAHat · 2014-12-20T04:04:42+00:00

So what are some examples of strong male role models in tv and film? Aside from mad men of course

BlueFreedom420 · 2014-12-20T04:19:38+00:00

Also bad fathers can bring you here. I hated my step father so much that I hated men.

2014-12-20T06:15:40+00:00

This is why I'm swallowing a giant red pill and never looking back.

Snivellious · 2014-12-20T06:32:21+00:00

My dad was too far in to get a divorce when he had me. He was probably a pretty fun guy when he first got married, but he was an alcoholic to cope with marriage by the first time I can remember.

My uncle is MGTOW, which might be masculine but doesn't tend to be a role model.

My grandfather is too irascible and old school to be truly relevant, even if he is masculine.

I don't have a "modern" role model, and that's why I'm here. Thanks for the reminder.

Ambarsariya · 2014-12-20T09:05:32+00:00

Lift weights, get healthy, learn game, get a style, sleep with lots of women, get heartbroken, chase your dreams and most of all:

Never fucking give up

This is essentially everything for a guy.

jcrpta · 2014-12-20T09:25:54+00:00

Deeper than that.

I'm here because of a lack of male role models in my Father's life. I looked up to him when he was alive, and I still miss him. But dear God did he need to know all this. He needed to know it twenty years before I was born.

His dad was away on business most of the time he was growing up, which meant he had a pretty lonely childhood, raised by his mum.

He joined the Navy at the age of about 18; the "official" view within the family doesn't really consider why. But I have a pretty good idea:

Around that time, his dad would have been retiring. The man who was away on business all the time was suddenly at home a lot more.
I have Dad's naval records, and they're interesting reading. He was promoted a few times, mainly because in those days it was pretty well automatic based on years of service until you reached the lowest rungs of being an officer. After that, promotion was based on merit.
He reached that point, occasionally found himself with responsibility - and blew it. I have reports from his superiors commenting on how he became the most senior officer on board a ship when the Captain was indisposed - yet someone else wound up having to run it. They weren't impressed.
Up until he was 21 (the age of majority at the time), his superiors were sending regular letters to his dad commenting on progress. One particular bit stuck out - an officer who wrote back commented on how he was sending a progress report "as requested".

Conclusion: Grandpa came home from work for the last time, took one look at his youngest son (who was just about at school leaving age) and thought to himself "Dear God, what sort of a man is this?! Maybe if he joins the armed forces they'll be able to sort him out...."

drowninginfootwear · 2014-12-20T13:35:40+00:00

I get what your saying, and I don't disagree, but that title is cringeworthy. Don't tell me why I'm here and stop treating this like a cult.

2014-12-20T13:36:00+00:00

My dad is alpha as fuck but he works a lot being such a high position in his company. He was out a lot so I never really got to see his actions so I grew up so BP it is cringe worthy. My mom and dad definitely have an RP marriage though.

redpillerinnyc · 2014-12-21T01:24:40+00:00

My dad is and was alpha as fuck. He's always been loaded with bitches and money. My mother was barely out of her teens when he married her. She's taller than him (she used to be a runway model) and it doesn't phase him at all. Has never been faithful to her either.

I'm just here because I hate bitches.

getomc · 2014-12-21T16:22:50+00:00

If we complained about our fathers not being men then we wouldn't be ourselves either now then would we?

Moszne · 2014-12-22T22:51:07+00:00

I was reading some book that was recommended here. "No more Mr. Nice guy". I thought it will be about me, but when i was reading it I realize that it was about my father. He was "Nice Guy".

fortifiedoranges · 2014-12-19T16:59:05+00:00

"Lift weights, get healthy, learn game, get a style, sleep with lots of women, get heartbroken, chase your dreams and most of all:

Never fucking give up"

All good advice. Except for learn game. Don't listen to those "PUA" losers. Just talk to women and be confident and assertive while not coming across as needy.

That PUA and game nonsense infuriates me. If you need magician slight of hand tricks to get with women, you're a lost cause.

2014-12-19T16:15:08+00:00

And don't look back for the fallen.

You can not help them, you can not fight their fights. They are too far gone, too invested in a life they chose, even if they choose it by default.

balalasaurus · 2014-12-19T16:41:15+00:00

I think we should do well to remember that we're not here because we want to be the opposite of our dads.

Yes our lack of male role models brought us here. Yes for many of us, our fathers were not very good male role models. However our end goal should not be to be the opposite of our beta dads. Rather it should be to continually improve ourselves so that we are the best version of ourselves.

We should use the examples provided to us by our BP fathers/ guardians for purely instructional purposes only. When we think that we have to develop ourselves to be the counterpoint of something or someone else, we've already lost.

Sesa_Refum · 2014-12-19T20:45:27+00:00

You are here because of lack of male role models in your life

The guys over at bluepill are gonna have a field day with this one

2014-12-19T17:15:04+00:00

I'm here because I'm just absolutely done with women period, and I don't care for dating or any interaction with em anymore, I lift weights to get healthy, but only for myself, and nobody else, if a woman takes a liking to me, great, otherwise I'm MGTOW all the way.

Slydermv · 2014-12-19T18:55:37+00:00

From No More Mr. Nice Guy:

"The opposite of crazy... is crazy"

Explore the relationship with your father... cherish the good things.... there will be some (for example, as stated, you may ant to be thankful for the hard work ethic he has), but improve upon what you have to...

There's no black and white. It's all shades of grey.

teeelo · 2014-12-19T18:42:41+00:00

Upon further consideration, my Dad was borderline Omega. Everyone in my family suffered.

Red Pill, I don't know what id do without you.

Sauerkraut206 · 2014-12-19T18:50:09+00:00

Lift weights, get healthy, have style, sleep with quality women, break hearts, chase your dreams..... Fixed

the_optiomal · 2014-12-19T19:43:53+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aHfxx0WBLjg

Ochimort · 2014-12-20T17:37:21+00:00

I was lucky enough to have a very redpill father cause European roots.

2014-12-19T14:29:55+00:00

You may be here for that reason. Do not assume the motives of others.

A_Nihilist · 2014-12-19T19:08:30+00:00

Actually I'm here to read the laughably fake field reports.

1800420 · 2014-12-19T21:47:58+00:00

To me its not the betas.. But the white knights...

watersign · 2014-12-19T20:39:19+00:00

unless your dad is a CEO or an accomplished business person who is wealthy, most, if not all of us are lacking positive male role models in our lives.

the only thing worse than having a blue collar dad is having a dad who is a corporate drone who isnt in management. the epitome of beta

Title	Remember, you are here because of a lack of male role models in your life
Author	musicvita25
Upvotes	481
Comments	158
Date	December 19, 2014 1:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2psblx/remember_you_are_here_because_of_a_lack_of_male/
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