I have a question for husbands where there isn’t oral sex in your marriage.
I’ve(M) been married for 2 years to my beautiful wife (F). We waited until marriage to have sex and I’m glad that we did but I would feel real special if she was into oral sex. In our marriage counseling she told me that she didn’t want to preform oral sex and I was okay with it.
I’ve never experienced it up I want to and my wife isn’t going to change her mind anytime soon considering I’ve brought it up and caused a fight.
How do you get over not having that in your marriage when you want it? Do you block it out? Not think about it?
I want to try it but I feel like I have to deal with that not happening in my marriage and I don’t want to resent my wife because we both waited and we’re both learning. I did the right thing but I feel like I can’t enjoy all that married sex can bring.
Please let me know if you can help.
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