CMV: Pitfalls of Womenhood

Battle-Scars · 2017-04-30T04:30:01+00:00

From the experience I've had, most terpers would just blame you for choosing a bad male.

ifelsedowhile · 2017-04-30T05:40:00+00:00

imagine a girl having a child with another man, then imagine that man walking out of her life mid-pregnancy. The girl will now have to deal with the risks associated with child-birth and will also have to sacrifice a huge chunk of her life to deal with the upbringing of a child.

one word, three syllables: adoption. It's an option women have while men are tied to child support for 18 years.

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tiposk · 2017-04-30T04:36:50+00:00

Red pill is about sexual strategy for males, so it's expected for it to only focus on male issues. That said, I agree with you. The woman is the only one that can carry the baby if she decides to have it. Moreover, society considers that it's less acceptable for a woman to cut ties with her own child.

Hairbrainer · 2017-04-30T04:32:49+00:00

I absolutely agree. There is a lot that women deal with more bearing a child that men are fortunate enough to not have to undergo, and it's taken for granted in many cases. It's not to say that men have to bow down to women or anything as a result, but there are consequences that men feel like hey don't have to deal with as much as women do, which is shitty.

[deleted] · 2017-05-01T14:27:35+00:00

It's not so much ignorance of issues women have to deal with as it is indifference.

Women have all sorts of resources to help them when they get in trouble or need help. women get all sorts of help when they have relationship problems.

Men don't have those same resources.

The Red Pill and the manosphere are written by men for men. We don't concern ourselves with issues women have with sex, dating, mating, marriage, and associated matters. It's not our problem. The pitfalls of womanhood are not our problem. So we don't write about it.

If a man wants to find out about the pitfalls of womanhood, he need merely walk out his front door, move about in the world, log on to the internet, read a newspaper or a magazine, or turn on a TV or a radio. He will be bombarded 24/7/365 about women's problems and the pitfalls of womanhood.

Yes there are pitfalls and problems to being a woman. But they're not our problem.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2017-04-30T05:21:22+00:00

How many single mothers have you known/slept with/dated? For starters, the ones on the lower end of the economic scale usually gain a new life from this. As soon as a doctor tells her she's pregnant, she becomes eligible for medical care to also take care of baby. She is then given food vouchers in the form of a credit card.

It used to be food stamps, but those started getting traded as currency, so they swapped to the card- that she meets the drug dealer at Walmart with to swipe his groceries in exchange for drugs.

Then they apply to government housing, and can even get that money approved for use in renting a normal house, if she finds an open, approved one that some other mother isn't already doing the same thing in.

So now, just by spreading her legs, she is now fed, and housed, all before she even lifts a finger. Oh yeah- that simple child support check you mentioned.. guess that can be mama's new car payment, or clothes and clubbing money.

What's her typical day like? Well it does suck until the kid turns 5, and starts riding the bus to school. At which point, unless she has taken up work for play money, or phone bill (Hell-oh, boyfriend..) she can do whatever she wants all day until the kid comes home from school. 5 days a week, and every other weekend off doing a babysitter swap with sis or whoever.

I'm sure it's not that easy for each and every one- but easily can be for most.

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Battle-Scars · 2017-04-30T04:28:05+00:00

What redpill material have you been reading?

badnews4u · 2017-04-30T13:44:00+00:00

how about getting drafted to war? cmon man, stop kidding yourself. this is probably the hardest thing you can come up with and it completely exonerates her of pair bonding, or choosing the have sex in the first place. ditto for men who end up with kids they couldnt afford. theyre all stupid

OurThrownAwayDreams · 2017-04-30T16:35:29+00:00

Deal with it.

Men have the burden of performance, women have the burden of choice.

You're right that for every positives there are, there are negatives that come with them. Just like guys who complain "but why do I have to go work out? Be in shape? Have interesting hobbies? Make lots of money? Have a lot of experiences?" Women must accept the reality that the burden of choice is on them. They pick the men they sleep with, they grant them the access to their bodies. If you choose to sleep with a man without vetting him properly, then you have no one to blame if he walks out on you during your pregnancy.

The game of life is perfectly balanced. Don't complain.

gasparddelanuit · 2017-05-01T22:22:07+00:00

Women have more reproductive rights than men, even if we exclude abortion. They can also get government assistance, child support and another man to help support them. Women have far more support mechanisms in place than men, in addition to the moral support of society.

RP men are quite well informed about the challenges women complain about, because that's all they heard growing up and in mainstream discourse. For many, it became so internalized that it blinded them to their own and other men's challenges. More than that, it made them feel guilty about being men and having male predilections. That's what the RP is all about, it is a response to the gynocentric bias in Western cultural discourse, brought about by feminism.

darksoldierk · 2017-04-30T05:29:37+00:00

I don't think you really understand TRP. Why should men care about the pitfalls of womenhood?

Honestly, women don't need us to fight for them anymore, they don't need us to protect or support them anymore, hell, not only do they not need us to do those things for them anymore, they don't want us to and some of them despise us for even attempting . Women have the state, and that is what they want.

TRP simply realises that the goal of the male gender, the purpose of our fathers and forefathers sacrifices has been achieved. We created a world where women are as safe as they could be. Where they can be happy. And where we are no longer burdened with ensuring their safety and happiness. Where we, as men, are no longer required to sacrifice for women. And now, the male gender's purpose is shifting from focusing on making our women and children happy and safe to making ourselves happy and safe. We make ourselves happy by going after sex. We make ourselves safe by getting physically and mentally strong. That is what TRP is.

So why should I care about the woman who is pregnant? Why shouldn't I walk out if that's what makes me happy? It's not my job to make sure she is taken care of anymore, not my job to sacrifice anymore. It isn't my responsibility anymore. Women don't appreciate it, if they do, they sure do have a funny way of showing it. The law takes care of her now, and if the law says that my child support and alimony should be enough for her to be able to support and raise her child, then it isn't my job to get in the way of that. It isn't my job to give her more. The state takes everything from me and gives it to her. It takes my right to be with my children on a regular basis. The law doesn't even allow men to be be fathers, doesn't even recognises the benefits of fatherhood beyond it's ability to provide financial support.

Women and the law have taken away our children, taken our resources, and now you want us to think about giving them more? You want men to ease women's lives further by sacrificing MORE than our children, our resources and (not to be dramatic or anything) our freedom (every time we put our dicks in a woman, we could end up being accused of rape and be put in jail)? Are you insane?

Title	CMV: Pitfalls of Womenhood
Author	TwelvePac
Upvotes	3
Comments	118
Date	April 30, 2017 4:23 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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