I think one of the main reasons for all of the bitterness from the manoshpere, is because women are heavily advantaged compared to men when it comes to sociability and relationships, but they don't really aknowledge it or even worse pretend they are at a disadvantage.

Personal observations: On almost every social media sphere (facebook, instagram, snap), a woman will destroy a man in amount of attention acquired. No data to back this up, but I'd be willing to bet my left nut there is a discrepancy between the genders no matter how small.

Online dating: A woman will get infinitely more matches/responses than the average man. I have only seen the tinder profiles of two girls, one girl had about 2000 matches after using the app for 1 year, the other had 4500 matches (dunno how long she had app). These girls average looking. Either way, that makes my match count look laughable in comparison, and I'm not ugly by any means.

I think women out perform men in relationships in general (friends and romantic) to a similar degree that men out perform women in physical competition. There will always be men who are social butterflies, and who kill it with women, but I'm just going to say the average male will have fewer friends, receive less attention on social media or in general, and will have fewer romantic partners than women at almost every stage in life. The same way women will be slower, weaker, and have slower reaction times relative to men (even tho there will be exceptional women who outperform >95% of male population).

So now imagine you are a woman in a weightlifting competition without any gender barriers, and are competing with men. You are weak compared to them. You've been working hard, trying to figure out how to compete at a high level and no matter what you do, you don't understand how it's so effortless for these dudes to lift so much weight. Now imagine, that they actually make fun of you for feeling sorry for yourself, and that you would be as strong as them if you just weren't such a whiny loser. Add insult to injury, these dudes also complain about how they aren't strong enough in front of you.

This is basically all it is imo, if women just were aware of their own superiority in the social realm just like how men are aware of their own superiority in the physical realm then there wouldn't be so much bitterness.

So to all the dudes out there, if you're still struggling after grinding, I feel for you guys. It's alright though.