Stats- 5 foot 11 inches, approx 10or less percent body fat, 175 lbs, i dont know i just do push ups and pull ups. and lunges, I do about 80 alternating for each leg before stopping. i can do about 80 good push ups without stoppingn in a set and 25 good dead hang pull ups with no kipping chin over the bar. I do about 30 minutes to and hour of running 6-7 times a week.

I never really had a problem with attracting a woman that I'm physically attracted to. Also i've never been very active in pursuing women as I just assume most are damaged goods and don't want to bother stressing about it. The only problem is after about 5 attempts so far in my life of getting to know women at various churches and about 10+ people that I just approached because they were very physically attractive/I was hoping they were christian/a virgin, now I assume all the women I actually find very physically attractive, are have had sex with at least one dude. The women I approached were in the age range of 20-28. Obviously this isn't true that all physically attractive women have had premarital sexual relations in some way or another.

Also I've tried considering non-virgins as partners, many people have tried to throw all sorts of theological reasons, but I just can't. Yes they may be saved by grace, and we're all equally saved by God's grace thru Christ. But when, it comes to marrying an actual person for life, I personally am absolutely repulsed with considering someone that has had sex with another man and would rather be single than marry a non-virgin.

Are the chances of me finding a good christian virgin partner that I find very attractive physically, slim to none? I haven't tried this, but should i just go for the numbers game and just go up to literally every woman I find physically attractive and hopefully I'll find one that's actually a good christian and a virgin? Also, very rarely do I bump into christian women I'm physically attracted to at church unless it's a big church, which I'm generally not a fan of most big churches because usually they suck and teach basically nothing of biblical depth and just try to work up your emotions most of the time with their songs/teaching.

Any feedback or insight appreciated! Thank you!

Edit: hey God Bless y’all thank you for putting in the time to write and share your thoughts. Some great replies. I do appreciate it! Please keep them coming if you have anything to add, I’m reading them all.