We’ve had articles on the side bar about the realities of the “SMP” and why women do what they do. The problem is that these articles lead to guys going from confused to just plain out hateful and miserable, even though there is a lot of truth to them which I will just not deny. A real problem here is that TRP fails to understand what their subscribers really need and when confronted with it, they completely deny its importance.

What their subscribers really need is that feeling of belonging, a sense of community, being accepted, a sense of community, and that feeling of acceptance among a group of people. I had this back in college with Greek Life and I think this is something that can benefit a lot of guys out there.

Unfortunately, TRP pushes these guys down the absolute wrong path. It tells them to spend more time alone which is detrimental to them and if they crack, I hate to say it, potentially detrimental to society. Sorry guys but the lonely pick up artist is not an alpha, he is usually an annoyance to the public.

See, the typical guy that ends up on these internet forums didn’t have your normal healthy upbringing. Maybe his parents sheltered him, perhaps he was home schooled, or maybe due to some rough circumstances he had a hard time forming a social circle in his school days. People who had this form of social life and social acceptance were for the most part mentally healthy and lacked the misery. That feeling of belonging is so important to a lot of people that they are doing whatever they can to fit in.

Now it is slightly different to the TRP crowd since the guys in it want success with women, in that case….

What these guys really need is a somewhat less judgmental group to belong to. A lot of these guys need a group of male friends that can actually help push them into social situations involving women (kinda like fraternities back in college) as opposed to being some lonely weirdo PUA everyone finds annoying. Through these friends and heavy exposure to social situations, these guys can get better with not only girls but also make themselves more appealing overall as well as being happier.

Unfortunately, this becomes harder to do as you turn into an adult which is something I think needs to be talked about more. I strongly believe that this kind of emphasis on social life and community is what a lot of the guys on TRP need to feel happy in life and lose all of the anger.