Just as the question reads. There seems to be a lot of BP or non-RP discussion lately centered around trying to shoot down the concept of AWALT.

  • "Hey, AWALT is generalizing and generalizing is wrong!"
  • "AWALT is meaningless, guys, I can't believe you silly twerps are so simple minded!"
  • "How could you live by that nonsense, women are all different and special?!"

To wit, my question is:

Why do you care so much?

People are allowed to hold any belief that they want. Some people believe in an invisible man in the sky who determines their fate. Some people believe they can read the future on tea leaves. And yes, some men believe that "all women are like that".

AWALT is nothing more than a guideline for men to live their personal intersexual lives by, and nothing more.

  • If your 2 year LTR all of a sudden goes on "girls night out" every Thursday wearing fishnet pantyhose and a miniskirt, yes, she's probably cheating on you or trying to cheat on you. AWALT.
  • If a girl fucks you on the first date, yes, she's probably a promiscuous slut not worthy of an LTR, because you are not the first one she's fucked on the first date. AWALT.
  • If sex drops off after the wedding, no, she doesn't have "low sex drive", she was never sexually attracted to you, and she married you for other reasons. AWALT.
  • If a woman has bastard children out of wedlock, yes, that is an indicator that she probably makes bad decisions in other parts of her life. AWALT.
  • If a woman only calls you when she needs a tire fixed or some boxes moved, yes, she is friend zoning you. AWALT.
  • If she only seems to want to have sex after $100 dinners, she's pegged you as Beta Bux. AWALT.

See, that's all AWALT really is; a non-verbalized method of thought processes that better prepares men to predict and deal with oft repeated patterns of behavior amongst women. In the years since applying AWALT to my dealings with the "fairer sex" (god I hate that term), my "batting average", if you will, has gone up tremendously in dealing with female behavioral traits.

And see, I think that's really what's at the root core of why so many here have a problem with AWALT; any man applying it is tilting the dating game back in his favor. And reading/listening to TRP actually verbalize strategy to maximize his success is seen as "manipulation" of women, which, as our feminine imperative society tells us, is strictly forbidden to speak of.

So if it isn't that, why is it? Why does TBP and non-RP care so much if men assume AWALT?