It's been my experience that people who call out others for having standards only do so because of their lack of attractiveness. Fat women become feminists because they want men to stop finding higher-value women (re: thin, non-promiscuous women) attractive. Male feminists want their effeminate nature to be perceived as attractive as well. Feminist male movie stars are the exception, they are merely paying lip service to increase the popularity among their female fans -- note the type of women these actors actually date.

Rather than make the change necessary to become attractive, they demand that other parties drop their standards for them. Movements like HAES and Slutwalk are less about acceptance, and more about gaining the perception of attractiveness by eliminating others' standards.

My post about this in the TRP main sub