Full disclosure before the shit storm ensues, but I'd be a hypocrite if I said I haven't enjoyed a few sluts in my life. (Actually I enjoyed one the other day). However, I still don't think they are relationship material, and honestly I'd say the same for slutty men. I think that both slutty men and women are likely to cheat on their partner, in fact I think it's inevitable. I also think the slut/stud argument deployed by blue pillers and feminists is off base.

For starters, women are shamed when they express their sexuality and men are shamed when they don't. Men get slutshamed just as much as women. It just takes on different forms. Especially when you consider the fact that men get branded as creeps, perverts, sex predators, potential rapists, etc. It's just different variations of slutshaming.

If a 40 year old women sleeps with lots of 20 year old guys she is treated like a stud. If you reverse the genders, what would most blue pillers call that 40 year old man going after 20 year olds? He'd most likely be shamed as a creepy pedophile.

Sluts choose a lifestyle that normal people (not feminists) generally sees as unhealthy. So i'm sorry, but if you're going to choose an unhealthy lifestyle that puts you and others at the risk of STDs and other issues, then you're GOING to be criticized for it. Don't expect not to be shamed for choosing a lifestyle you should be ashamed of.

In my opinion, Sluts should definitely be shamed. Turning a blind eye leads to the inevitable, with the likes of slutty kim kardashian being role models for younger girls in this over-sexualized society, the 'popular' girls in school being sluts with the other impressionable young girls trying to emulate this. Without anyone telling them that this behavior is 'wrong', I'm sure this is the path most will go down. Maybe some will regret it later, but unfortunately for them, many men (myself included) are not very forgiving of this kind of past. White knights will usually look past it but do feminists think we should raise our girls as SLUTS or give them equal freedom to be in their physically and emotionally developing years? When they are of age they can do as they wish. Raise them with proper values and if at the end of the day they are of age and the slut within them is just too strong then let them be, but discouraging this slutty nature while growing up should prevent a lot of girls mistakenly going down the wrong path pretending to be something they are not just to fit in and possibly having to live a life of consequences as the result. Feminism fails to do this.

Feminists believe the slut/stud standard exists because society hates women and female sexuality, but looks up to male sexuality. Many non-feminists will use the lock and key analogy to explain this phenomenon.

I'm sorry, but if there are any parents out there encouraging their sons to fuck anything that moves, than a CPS call is in order. Men are shamed as much as women for slutty behavior. My mother didn't approve of the slut I hooked up with last weekend, thats for damn sure.

I saw my ex the other day (she's a major slut) and she was bragging about how she is a total slut and took her neighbor's brother's virginity. She was bragging about all the dicks she's had. She drove drunk (like she does a lot) and started shaming the other girl I've been seeing for sleeping with me. Like her opinion is all that matters. She's not any where near being a good person in my humble opinion, and wouldn't mind if something bad happened to her.

It comes down to this. Either guys are going to have to ignore all the negative traits slutty people tend to have, or we are all slutshaming oppressors on women.

So why is "Slut-shaming" such a bad thing now, especially towards feminists and Blue Pill minded people?

EDIT: Spelling. Also to clarify, the girl I'm seeing now is friends with my ex, so thats why she showed up drunk and with disapproval of her fucking me. In her own words: "You're still my friend, regardless of the guys you fuck."

EDIT: Just found out that farm slut I slept with the other night had been on a binge the entire week and sleeping with other guys coming to the farm BBQ. She may have slept with someone who is HIV positive from what I've heard, but apparently she's been checked and is clean. I was thinking with the wrong head that night and think I may have dodged a bullet. I'm scared shitless right now and have an even bigger distaste for sluts than before. I will be more careful from now on. She said she was clean, which is why I took the Magnum off. However, word down the grapevine says she is a major liar so I'm still not sold that I'm in the safe zone yet. I believe she's been checked and tested for STDs though.