Just a small word of advice here, but something I've had several chicks tell me lately.
When I meet a girl out, or when she comes over and into the house, I always do the same thing: pause after answering the door, stare at them silently for 5 seconds as they walk in with a smirk on my face. They look at you and their eyes get big and wide they're like. "What?!?" I say "Give me a hug!" and bend down and hug them quickly and pick them. They ALWAYS squeel and giggle. It breaks the tension while showing them a few things I'll explain later.
After a few weeks, bangs, and hugs, I always get the random text: "I love it when you pick me up." Im not talking about picking her up like old schoolers would when carrying their virgin wives into their new home after the wedding, I mean when you bend down and they put their arms around your neck to hug you, you stand up straight and take her with you.
I was dumped once in my BP days, and as this girl was reaming my ass for being an asshole (read: being too nice/doing everything society told me women loved) she was telling me about how her new boyfriend "picks me up and carries me around the house" (read: took her to the bedroom and railed her and got her pregnant with twins that came with 80 pounds and stretch marks lolz). I never understood WTF she was really saying when she said that, or why she was even mentioning it. I always thought about it and wondered why she told me that. It wasn't until I swallowed the RP that I realized it was a subtle masculine gesture that women love, like I love it when a woman does a small, sweet, feminine gesture to me, like wearing an outfit you told her was sexy, or just happened to be cooking your favorite meal when you show up.
Why do women like it? Because betas are pussies and scared to touch women, because, fear, and those are the guys that hit on her 90% of the time. And it also allows them to do their favorite thing: feel. Feel how tall you are as you stand up straight while hugging them. Feel how strong you are when you pick them up. Feel how you are able to protect them. Feel safe when in your arms. Dem physical feelz lead to dem emotional feelz.
It's a small point, but one worth mentioning. Don't be a pussy, touch her early and often, and give her a hug and pick her up. If she's comfortable with you, grab a handfull of ass on the way down - although, I'd avoid doing that on the first date, unless you think she would be cool with it, some chicks need a little time to feel comfortable, and you don't want her to feel like a slut when she first walks in the door.
You're a man, she's a woman, and she gets off on that shit like you would with her answering the door in a short dress, high heels, and an apron while you smell your dinner cooking. It's a small masculine gesture that she rarely sees in the world of betas who hoverhand her in pictures, or don't make the first move in fear of rejection.
Edit: A few guys have asked how to do this. It's much simpler than im making it sound. Something like this GIF works. I always do the 5 second awkward stare first, because it gets their feels going, then you do the hug/pick them up, and they love it and will remember that feeling. It's always all about dem feelz.
http://media.giphy.com/media/LhsCuuCxiLmQ8/giphy.gif
It's not this gay shit. You're not asking for the privilege to be divorce raped in 2 years.
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