I'm drinking with a girl who I used to plate, and now she's actually one of the best wing women ever. She wants to bang me again now, but I refuse because every time we go out she grabs hot girls and makes them join us. Then I close them. >75% of the time we go out, this happens.

She has a boyfriend, she tried to hamster to the idea that since he wasn't that "good" of a boyfriend (beta to the max, broke, low value, she's looking to swing) looking for a new boyfriend wasn't wrong without breaking up with him.

Went like this, she goes, "So when are you leaving town?" I go, "When I hear back from the guy I'm getting a place with about the walk through."

She goes, "We should have got a place together, HERE! I just need to find a good roommate or friend, or even a boyfriend to live with." (lol cause the boyfriend would have loved us living together, but once again, she doesn't give a fuck, cause she doesn't respect him).

Mind you: This is after he had briefly been brought up about how he was "working so hard and moving his life along" earlier in the conversation. This was obviously a first effort feel good attempt by her when she brought him up and I said, "How's that going?" to try and make it seem like her life is great, because women care what others think about them, a lot, normally. Earlier, I broke the topic and switched to something else and was, naturally, uninterested in talking about him.

Generally I won't talk about the boyfriend much unless she gives me destroyer material and I want to bang her (she's talking shit about him, I put him up, she puts him down, arrives at conclusion he's a loser), but I couldn't help myself. I decided to this time since I got another chance at digging for information, even though I didn't want to bang her.

I literally thought, "This is good learning material." So I bit on it.

She says, she needs to find a boyfriend to live with blah blah. I say, "You've got one. You love him."

And she goes...

"Yeah but his job is really spotty and he's not really trying at all to improve the situation. He's doing better than he was, though. I think I love him, but I'm not sure if I am IN love with him..."

I say, "It sounds like he's improved things a lot though, and he's a really nice guy (destroyer)"

She goes, "Not at all, his trucks messed up, he hasn't fixed it, he isn't bringing in money and he doesn't seem to care much. He's gaining weight too."

I say, "People gain weight in relationships (destroyer)"

And she goes, "Not the guys I want to be with."

lol.

Kino escalates from HER end the rest of the night, and I decide I'm really not into it based off previous stated logic and the fact she gets me laid a lot, I'm going to leave the situation as is.

However, it was a glaring example of a girl who is with a guy, that she calls her boyfriend to his face and her friends/family's faces, but is completely willing and able to discredit the relationship at any point in time if something better comes her way.

Not surprising, but more confirmation.

AWALT.