While this should be something that's digested and understood by any RP man, and it's advice for newcomers more than anything, I still see tons of guys on this sub who are constantly ask for advice about how to hide, mask, or basically deceive women about their insecurities. Seriously, this is an easy fix. The best way to deal with an insecurity is to own it. Why? Because when you own an insecurity, it simply loses its power.

Think of it like shit tests, what is the main destroyer of shit tests? Agree and ascend. Why? Because you're showing that test is silly, and you give zero fucks. When owning your insecurity, you destroy its power. People look at you different when you give zero fucks about something they may make fun of others for, and once they know you don't care about it, you're respected more for it.

Here's an example: Anthony Davis is the best young big man in basketball. When he first went to Kentucky, it seemed like every sports writer that wrote about him, or that talked about him on the radio or tv, wanted to throw in a jab about his unibrow. The dude is 7' tall, and has eyebrows for days. I would watch him play and see a closeup of him shooting a free throw and almost feel sorry for him about it. I would think to myself, "Does he not know he's the butt of every college basketball joke in America?" He knew, but he gave exactly zero fucks about it. What did he do? He patented that shit. He now owns a patent on "unibrow phrases" of "Fear The Brow," or "Raise the Brow."

Now, this is an extreme example because it won't matter to women if he had a unibrow, no eyebrows, or a fucking cat growing on his forehead, his SMV is through the roof. But, don't underestimate the ego's these guys have, they are treated like kings from the time they're in middle school on. The fact that he didn't shave it and hope that no one noticed - like Lebron - shows just how he didn't give a shit and turned it into an opportunity.

In my BP days I can remember when people would fuck with me and I would get butt hurt over it, then I'd be fucked with more. One time, a buddy of mine was busting my balls and I was - of course - getting mad about it. I shot right back at him about something and he immediately owned it. Instantly, within seconds, I couldn't say a word. He owned that insecurity, basically agreed and amplified it, and I seriously couldn't even think of anything else to say. It was a RP lesson in my deepest of blue days.

There was a thread on here not too long ago on how to handle having a small dick. It ws a great thread because the OP doesn't try to hide the fact that he has a small dick, he just figured out a way to please his plates without it mattering. He fucks them right, owns it, and they don't obviously don't care. And if they did care, so what? Fuck it, you can't change it, and there are 3.5 billion other women on the planet.

I constantly see threads here from short guys, or Indian guys, or other guys beating around the bush about something they're insecure about, asking how they can get a woman to like them despite this insecurity. Here's your answer: own it. If it's something you can't control like your height, or your skin color, own that shit. Fucking own it. It's yours, you don't give a shit what other people think, and fuck them if they don't like it. If it's something that can be changed like the amount of money you make, what kind of shape you're in, etc, then you should already be doing something about it, and that's owning it too. In the end, a woman will respect you 100x more when you AREN'T insecure about something, than when you get asshurt about it and defensive. It shows you have frame, confidence, and that masculine IDGAF attitude. That's what women are attracted to most.

Stop being insecure, it's nothing but another word for fear. Why are you afraid of what people think of you? Seriously, why does it bother you? Think long and hard about that. Does it change your life in any tangible way? Doyou lose any money because of this thought? How about your freedom, do you lose it because of what people think of something? Your belongings? Is your favorite past time taken away? Your true friends, are you never allowed to speak to them again because of what someone thinks? Your family, do they disown you? Your kids, will you never get to see your kids again because of what some fuck thinks? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's all in your head, and worst of all, you're acting like a woman, which is exactly what women are repulsed by.

Take care of your insecurity by bettering yourself, owning it, and stop giving a shit what others think of you. Be free.

tl;dr - Own your insecurities, give zero fucks what others think, and they lose their powers. It's all in your head anyway.