I'm suffering from a really unique situation with my sexual performance. I've had problems with delayed ejaculation since the first time I've had sex – couldn't finish the first few times, but it gradually got better over time to the point where I could finish exactly when I wanted to.

Lately, I've been having sex with a new plate and things were great the first couple times. But the last two times we had sex, I didn't last long at all, like maybe 3-4min tops.

The second to last time, I edged before, which is why I thought I finished so quick in like 4min. I had sex with another girl that night and went for probably 30-40min and actually had trouble finishing.

The last time, a couple days ago, I was thinking about not busting the entire time, and it was even worse. Absolutely destroyed my confidence. I haven't had sex since and I've been looking shit up about overcoming premature ejaculation, which is something I never thought I'd have to look into.

Has anyone here experienced something similar? Is this problem totally psychological? Should I just be rubbing one out shortly before sex to ensure I don't have any issues?