There is a false dichotomy in the RP discussion saying a man should not be emotional because emotional men are weak men. They are not in control of themselves.

Many autists come and ask here "how do I get rid of my emotional side?"

Humans cannot willingly change their emotion. We cannot will away sadness, pain, or even happiness once this feeling arrives. However, we can do many things to avoid, repress and ignore feelings.

This question usually comes from men who were hurt and now are afraid of the pain, thinking it makes them weak. They are running and hiding from it. They try to present a strong facade when in reality they are scared to face themselves because they know what hides underneath.

What really makes you weak is the constant inner struggle to avoid the pain, not allowing it to run its course.

I am a strong believer that we are first and foremost animals, and animals have ceratin biology that cannot and should not be avoided. I see Red Pill as a biological truth, however it is not the entire truth.

When your wife ignores you and you feel hurt, you try your best not to give that pain a place. STFU and move on un-butthurt as if nothing happened. Our biology requires for emotions to run their course. An emotion that is suppressed and not allowed to be expressed gets stuck with us like a gum stuck to the shoe sole. This created inner struggle and inner struggle created weakness.

As you keep avoiding feelings more and more gum get stuck on your shoe and eventually it gets hard to walk. Like a computer that has some background process running, eating away resources making everything else slow. Like a swamp that drags you down the more you try to fight it.

By fighting your feelings you become a weak man torn by constant inner conflict, instead of becoming a strong oak of a man. You run away from yourself, becoming fearful and avoidant. It can even hurt you physically, create all kinds of health problems. It takes energy away from your mission.

Here is the good news: there is a better way, and not one which turns you into the emotional beta train wreck you probably imagine.

It is dead simple: all you need to do is to feel those emotions.

Go to a quiet place, by yourself, for 20 minutes and allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you are feeling. Don’t whine to your wife, but sit by yourself and let the feelings come. The less you resist them, the faster they will run their course.

Do not analyze or judge or try to change anything. Just ask yourself “what is it that I am feeling right now?” Make sure you don't sit with the goal of getting rid of the feelings, the goal must be to only feel them. Like meditation.

When you accept your emotions, you no longer need to worry about what your wife, or anyone else will think of them. You OWN them, You do not dump them or wait for your wife to “heal your inner child”. Strong men don’t give two flying fucks what anyone thinks of them. They are the way they are and they OWN it.

I could cry in front of my woman, and still fuck her 2 times later, leaving her begging for more (true story). If you think you will be called a fag because you cry, it is not because of the tears, but because you are afraid of yourself and weak inside. It is easy to see the difference.

There is no getting rid of emotions. No matter how Red Pill you are, you are human and you will feel until the day you die. Instead of fighting yourself all the way there, save energy for what is really important.

I this made you curious, I also recommend this book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B002IYE5XO