My LTR mentioned that her friends might be going to Zante next summer and that if they are all going then she will go too.
I said to her that I don’t want a long term girlfriend who goes on these kinds of holidays, and that’s she is free to go but should expect unwanted consequences if she does.
She says this is unfair as she doesn’t really want to go but since all her friends are going she ‘can’t not go’. Some of her friends think I’ll back down if it came to it (I won’t) and that it’s a silly thing to leave someone for.
Was just wondering what your guys thoughts on it are?
My Ltr is adamant that she doesn’t really want to go but that she will go if all of her friends are going and she’d be left out, saying that if I were in her position I’d go with my friends.
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