I stumbled across this subreddit earlier today. Looking at it, I can't believe how much I relate to in in almost everything and how relatable every single post is to my relationship dynamic. I've been preaching to myself and others everything this subreddit says and nobody believed me...and it turned out I was right. Utter and total devotion to my husband during our eight years of marriage proved me I was right regarding all of this...and I'm happy to had found people who think similar to me.