Is this something men commonly go through while changing their mindset? A year ago I obsessed about sex all day long, it was my world, I'd do anything to negotiate desire. 6 months ago I genuinely started not having an emotional reaction to my fiancee turning me down for sex. Sex was wild and fairly frequent at this point. Now I find myself not feeling much of a sexual urge, for my fiancee or anyone for that matter. I'd rather rock climb, lift, read, or go on a hike. I'd like to keep initiating as forcefully/frequently as I had been, because I know the natural urge will come back in full force, and when it does I'd rather it not be a shocking change like it was the first time (even if it was a positive change). Is this just the way of life or is something out of whack?