In the recent times, a females advantage in the dating world has risen exponentially.

Women have a choice to date whom ever they please. A lot of women complain about not having success with their crushes. But, speaking from experience (M18, went to a school with 80% women) this is generally due to lack of effort.

  1. Instead of approaching, they hope he approaches them, even though he might not even know they exist.

  2. If he knows who they are, instead of putting themselves out there, they throw random hints that they like him and hope for the best.

A lot of females are overconfident, while a lot of males are the exact opposite.

A low value woman in todays society has the confidence of a high value one. Instead of realising her actual worth, and catering her standards, she keeps them regardless of her situation, and often has high expectations.

Men on the other hand underestimate themselves. Men are so concerned with their looks, because when approaching (and yes, it's extremely unfair that the man is the one who is expected to approach) they can often get rejected right away because they're not good looking enough. And this goes for approaching a woman of any kind of worth, be it low or high.

It is also unfair how we are starting to see a lot of hypergamous relationships in favour of women (when it comes to looks).

If you think about it, women used to care a lot more about a man's personality. While on the other hand, a man only hopes he can find a good looking girl, that is nice and loyal. That's all we really care about. Women care about a lot more then that. But now they want those men to be very good looking aswell. We used to see a lot more hypergamous relationships in favour of men. And those are the ones when you see a chubby dude walking with a very good looking girl. And if you get to meet him, you'll most likely find that he is very funny, nice and smart. And he was lucky enough to find a good looking girl that doesn't care as much about his looks.

But now, we are starting to see a turn. Men who aren't good looking simply become those "forever alone types". Average men have to settle for a either low, or equal value woman. While high value guys go for average or equal value girls. Guys don't punch up anymore, we don't have that luxury.

Having a hypergamous relationship in a mans favour is extremely rare nowadays. And even though I definitely am in one, I realize that I am EXTREMELY LUCKY. I am on the bottom end of the average looking scale. I just barely pass for average, but have a good personality, and am sort of confident and funny.

Now, when it comes to advices given to women and men in the dating world... Women are always advised to just move onto another guy if it isn't working with the current one. Instead of improving themselves.

While men are almost always adivised to work on themselves, and become the best version of themselves in hopes of finding someone they can be with. And while that is good, women don't do the same, nor do they lower their impossible standards when they upgrade themselves.

In conclusion, women have too high of standards, lack the ability/will to pursue a man if they like him, often fail to see that they have flaws aswell, and are just privileged in the dating world in general.