Animals are playful, it doesn't make them sweet, noble or caring. It means they like fun. Everyone likes fun. Don't mistake feminine playfulness for moral virtue. Many men find a young playful good looking woman intoxicating and so they ignore obvious deal-breaking flaws to indulge their own emotive fantasies. Like Greene said in Art of Seduction, a lot of men want to just give into their fantasies and "let go" with a woman. Good looking playful women seem to elicit that desire, much to said man's demise. Men are the "true" romantics. A woman knows how to say all the right things when you're on the fence about her. They say all this ego-flattering shit, it's girl game. See women need no game to get laid, and they have none. Women are boring. But when they decide they want a relationship with you? All of a sudden the girl game comes out. The following is the equivalent of chat-up lines, shit you will hear women say to convince you into commitment:

"Just let me prove to you I'm not like the other women."

"No matter how hard I try I can't stop thinking about you, you're the only thing I want in this world, I've never felt like this before."

poetic corny English major bitches: "You are the light in my darkness." (yes some bitches do actually talk like this.)

"You complete me, do I complete you?"

It makes you think she's hopeless, submissive, that you're the man. That she has this big pedestal built up to worship you on, but really, the whole thing is a con. If that same bitch wouldn't walk through fire for you she can choke on her own fucking words. Anybody can say that shit and not mean it. If you mean it, prove it. Some women come on intense real quick when they like you and want you to stick around, the same chick that bellows out a fucking sonnet and starts writing you essays in the beginning is the same kind of chick who will dump your ass over nothing. They are volatile, like rocket fuel.

The thing about all this "sweetness" and female confession of "love" is it all plays to your ego. If none of it is a lie, it's true for about the 5 seconds she writes it. This is the same chick who would drop you in a heartbeat if a man better off than you showed interest and your pimp-hand wasn't made out of titanium (as in, you have some fucking A grade game or are just a dark motherfucker.)

It's why break-ups hurt and tend to fuck over average men more than they do average women. It's also why women tend to do the dumping. The girl who said all that shit to make you feel like "I want to bond with her deeply" yesterday will dump you the next week, like a fucking used up doormat she's walked all over you, and whilst you're nursing the break-up trying to work out wtf happened, how it happened and googling your way over to theredpill, she's taking selfies so betas blow up her ego on social nets and is off out to get drunk so she can find her Chad ThunderCock for the night. She'll tell him all the same shit she told you if he sticks around for a couple of days or weeks. Women fall out of love even quicker than they fall in it. Fucked up thing is she probably believes it whilst she's saying it too, shit she may even momentarily mean it, but it doesn't mean shit in the long run.

My point is this: don't give into your fantasy "for love" it's a strong one, and if you really want to indulge that fantasy, it will cost you - BIG.

Secondly: don't assign too much value to what women say, think, or what they say they think. Their words are fickle, close to absolutely worthless. Don't make judgements based on their words, trust your logic and intuition. If you're in an LTR, pretend to give a fuck about what she thinks, then do what you have to do anyway. 99.9% of the time her words are useless, always factoring in her opinion for the .1% of the time it may be useful or correct is a waste of a mental heuristic. Women, for the sake of their own egos want to feel important and included and that "you care" - so get good at seeming like she had some sort of input, when really all you did was listen to pure fluff for 5 minutes whilst doing what you were going to do anyway.

I know a lot of you weak ass pathetic "I can't go on knowing what I know about women" bitch boys want to see the best in women. But you romantic hapless little fucks need to keep swallowing your red pills and stop longing for love. Life isn't about love, it's about being a winner. Prioritising love is for losers. Men who are winners get loved because they are powerful, not because they sought it out and "gave into the fantasies aroused by a woman's manipulative devices." You have to stay in control of yourself when with a woman, don't let her take control of how you feel and see the world.

Being the fool because you're too weak and too scared not to be is the exact thing that breeds the unbrotherly sentiment in TRP: "this guy knew the score but rejected the truth, so fuck him." And at the end of the day, as much as I like to help guys get their ship in order, I won't waste time on fools - neither will most other men worth a fuck.

If you reject reality, those of us aligned with reality will not be here for you when you fuck your own life up and come crying to us. Part of being a man is accepting women are full of shit and treating them accordingly. Take that "most responsible teenager in the house" thing quite literally. She will never be your equal no matter how badly you want her to be. She will never be bound to her word. Her desires and opinions will always change more than your momentary appetite. You are the rock, the consistency, the order in her chaos - so don't let your fantasies and ideas of love allow you to be overwhelmed by her tempest of bullshit.

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