Men and women rarely understand the struggles each face. We cannot understand period pain or pain of childbirth. Women cannot understand the pain men go through at work, school and family life. However, a man accommodates his female partner's struggle but not vice versa.

If a woman has a dream that she has been cheated on, despite our confusion on how one can take a mere dream so seriously, men understand that best not to argue and let her ride her emotions.

But, a man comes home from a 9-5 job- having been shat on by his boss, dealing with terrible public transport or traffic, all for measly wages- he will not be accommodated. He will come home to whining and bitching.

If he dares stand up for himself, he will be shamed for being a toxic husband who does not listen. Women see a helpless man as a low-value man.

No More Mr Nice Guy is an excellent book to be read, the message is that only you can meet your needs. Women themselves believe that nothing can be their fault, that they are God's favourite people, and that had it not been for men they'd whip the world into such a peaceful place, stop world hunger and fly to Mars.

A woman alone cannot accommodate her own needs, therefore there is no reason to suggest she can accommodate the needs of others- including her partner. She is a child, after all.