Did I soft next this plate correctly?

FereallyRed · 2019-10-27T22:24:50+00:00

That was perfect.

Americandreambruh · 2019-10-27T22:40:58+00:00

Don’t be a rude dick and she’ll be back when they break up

FattiesMakeMeGag · 2019-10-27T22:12:28+00:00

Anything that doesn't sound salty is fine.

vandaalen · 2019-10-27T23:36:56+00:00

Perfect. Don't see it in terms of hard or soft next though. She just thinks that she might be able to do better and you don't care, because it was your turn, but now it's somebody else's turn and you are fine with that.

She will be back for sure one day. Might be a week, a month , a year or even a couple of years, but they always come back at least once if you fucked them good, handled them well and let them go.

Good job!

The_Peoples_Asshole · 2019-10-28T00:21:46+00:00

Spot on. Keep on spinning.

DoTheTraditions · 2019-10-28T03:09:30+00:00

Good response. However, I came just to comment on the epic username. Keep slaying.

Zanaristic7 · 2019-10-28T04:02:34+00:00

This sub is turning into men and women fucking each other. Classic.

INNASKILLZ2K18 · 2019-10-28T11:18:31+00:00

Perfect. Non reactive, low investment.

A chance she'll bounce back if she gets bored with Mr 'I give my exclusivity away too fast'. Happens, if they've had a taste of 'Alpha'.

TexAs_sWag · 2019-10-28T13:16:57+00:00

Absolutely. When things end with that guy or when she gets bored of him, you’ll very likely be the first guy she texts, “hey, how you been?”

Hydrakeen · 2019-10-28T13:01:19+00:00

Great plates I call friends. I'll talk to them while they have a boyfriend because I genuinely care about them and am interested in whatever.

Doesnt happen often but boyfriends come and go. Some women you can fuck time and time again over decades if you both happen to be single.

Might happen a ton if you are exceptionally attractive but certainly once or twice in a lifetime for average men.

Am I suggesting an orbit? Sort of, but passing friendship to give her the space she needs to really have a relationship.

Alpha27145 · 2019-10-28T04:02:10+00:00

When all the comments say you did a good job, you did a good job

Kn31 · 2019-10-28T11:59:47+00:00

Well done lad, this is the shit I love to see here! I personally go with "oh ok"

Herdsengineers · 2019-10-28T14:36:40+00:00

Only thing I might have said to say different is add on a "See you around" to make it obvious you're comfortable and not butt hurt. But you did fine too.

Don't be surprised if you hear from again soon, break up or not. Just decide ahead of time if you want to risk dealing with a pissed off boyfriend if she's looking for excitement on the side if she reaches out again.

EvelynnSpoiler · 2019-10-28T06:13:44+00:00

surprised I got a year out if her

I'm surprised you got anything with that kind of mindset

JameisBong · 2019-10-28T00:49:11+00:00

Handled it well. No emotional friendzone bullshit. Do not allow yourself to be her emotional tampon,let her boyfriend deal with that.

MDMCrab · 2019-10-28T01:07:06+00:00

You did fine. I've been in this exact position and handled it the same way.

redlizard3 · 2019-10-28T01:18:47+00:00

Seems like a reasonable and respectable way to proceed to me.

-ThePathIsTheGoal- · 2019-10-28T05:50:41+00:00

Dead on. The fact that she responded also tells you that she’ll be back once they break up. Good work.

Deluxillo23 · 2019-10-28T11:12:14+00:00

How can this girl hasn’t been attached to you, fucking her once a week and tooking her virginity? I wont understand this crazy bitches ever.

TheBunk_TB · 2019-10-28T12:24:34+00:00

I think you did okay. Have fun and keep busy at your other pursuits. But I would ask one thing; look back with a positive light. It will make your future more bright and your forays will see it too.

th33unsaltednutt · 2019-10-28T12:59:07+00:00

She will be back.

Domebeers · 2019-10-28T17:40:50+00:00

Should have sent a dick pic with a smiley face on it

anicebigrodforyou · 2019-10-28T18:40:40+00:00

she will be back. well played, sir.

MattyAnon · 2019-10-28T21:02:36+00:00

The reason I'm asking is because I've never been in this situation before. How did I do?

You're fine.

She'll likely be back when it ends with current Mr Exclusive. Ignore meanwhile.

bodybuilder98 · 2019-10-29T00:09:45+00:00

A little harsh / brusque, but you could've done worse.

RaptorMan333 · 2019-10-28T03:39:05+00:00

Yeah it's fine, but...i guess why do you care? You're not seeing her anymore and you've already fucked her a bajillion times, so who cares what you text her? I mean i guess maybe if you want to leave her on the backburner for if she breaks up with the dude.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2019-10-28T00:00:42+00:00

Perfect. Now you have to go radio silent, only response if she initiates, it's an indefinite soft next.

Abnull · 2019-10-27T23:05:32+00:00

If she sleeps with somebody after you, it’s a hard next. Never take her back. Don’t take that disrespect.

Title	Did I soft next this plate correctly?
Author	Chadmassacre
Upvotes	140
Comments	49
Date	October 27, 2019 10:06 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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