There are some exceptions of course, but generally speaking women marry men only to deny them sex and intimacy a few months into the marriage. Men either have to make do without, seek extra-marital affairs or pay for escorts. But if their wives find out, they get angry at their husbands for doing this (and possibly seek divorce), even though they are the ones who are causing it.
There are many cases where men have sex with their wives only on their birthday and wedding anniversary. Or they get unenthusiastic starfish sex once every couple of months. Many women deny even basic intimacy with their husbands, including kissing on the lips or hugging in bed. Why are women doing this? They deny men sex and intimacy once they marry them, but get angry if these men seek sex and intimacy elsewhere.
And more importantly, why do men fall for this obvious trap? Admittedly fewer men are falling for this trap, as MGTOW and Red Pill grows, people are sharing their experiences online and men are realising the raw deal they get in marriages - we are seeing marriage rates decline year on year as a result. But still a large number of men fall for this and get themselves locked into a sexless situation with a grumpy wife who won't allow them sex with anyone else.
You also rarely (if ever) hear about it the other way round. I don't think I've ever heard of a woman who desperately wanted sex and intimacy in her marriage and her husband denied her it.
What are your thoughts on all this?
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