It's great that society has accepted that a woman can choose to want children or stay childfree. As long as you make it clear early on, it's a fair game.
However, for me and I personally struggled with my decision a lot, is....it depends. My stance is similar to marriage. I want children IF we can afford it without sacrificing lifestyle then I will have kids. However, IF I married a poorer man that cannot afford children, then I'd rather be childfree.
My sentiment is very similar to "I'd rather stay single than be in a bad marriage". However, society thinks it's selfish when it is "I'd rather be childfree than financially struggle with a child."
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