Yes, we get it. You want a trad wife and a trad life.

Except that you’re not masculine. And the number one thing a trad woman wants (after you bankrolling her for life) is a masculine man. Toni Lahren dates a navy seal, not a video game designer. Sarah Palin (the original tradmilf) married an oil rigger. And so on.

Maybe you’re an immigrant or first gen guy from a more traditional culture. You dream about finding a western woman and having the kind of marriage common in your culture. But trad women in the west, who have choices, want masculine men. So you settle on blaming it on your race or your looks which you conveniently can’t do anything about.

Or maybe you’re a white dude in the south or Midwest and you came to the manosphere to figure out why even though you’re surrounded by trad women, none want to date you. And when you’re told that “women want masculine men so get off your ass, lift, get confidence and social ease,” you balk and chose instead to stew in anger that you’re the victim of 40 years of liberal/feminist cock blocking.

Tl;dr if you want a trad wife and a trad life, you have to be a masculine man. There’s just no other way.