Is that even if I invest time in building for the future and improving myself, by the time I hit 30 I won't get to enjoy the same social benefits I had the opportunity to enjoy when I was young.

I am going to be 25 (which isn't old) soon and I agree with the SMV chart, over the years I have found that girls who wouldn't give me the time of the day during my adolescence were running after me when I hit my 20s. My issue is that as I get older, I feel like some of the benefits I had of the social benefits being young will no longer be around when I am at my peak. Take college for example, it is set up so you almost have to meet people and there are a plethora of girls who are young, decent looking, and are more than open to no strings attached sex. Unfortunately, most guys will leave college at around 22 or 23 and hit the working world. The ease of access to a social life and girls they had in sex will no longer be around.

Being in the working world now, I have found that some of the benefits I had back in my school days are no longer around. I have more responsibilities, it is much harder to meet people, wild and crazy parties are almost impossible to come across, and women for the most part have grown out of the hook up culture wanting something more serious now. All of these benefits I had while being in college made my life so awesome that even without a nice salary, I loved it. Instead of exploring their sexuality like girls did back in college, they now want a provider and are using every trick in the book to lure you into committing to them for the long term.

Now I agree, by the time I am 30, my life and that of many other men out there is going to be much better than that of the girl who hit her peak at 18 and rode the cock carousel. The question I am left asking myself is whether that is really saying much.

It seems like as men get older, there are no more wild parties, no strings attached sex is hard to come across because women are trying to lock you down for an LTR, and life just gets so boring. All of your friends are settled into having families and it is so easy to feel isolated. Amazing road trips, wild spring breaks, and just the fun that comes with being young is no longer around for us.

Sometimes, I just wonder what I even have to look forward to when I have hit my peak at 35...