Let's say you're walking home and a maN hops out of his car, places a gun to yiur head and says get in the car. You've seen the scenario on criminal minds or law and order or any cop show.

do yiu get in the car? The obvious answer is no. If this man is willing to pull a gun out on you, it's most likely he's going to kill you already. The second you step into that car you step into his frame and become a victim. Outside the car you're still a man, you're still an equal.

There's a reason that nearly one hundred percent of the time women are getting in that car. Their natural mindset is that of a victim, of someone committing to someone else's frame.

This is why when we link to things from relationships or askmen or whatever, women are always seen as the victim or paint themselves as one even if they did something horrid.

This information shouldn't offend you, the opposite in fact, it should empower you. It's the world telling you women need to be protected because they can't do it themselves. That men are bigger and superior snd here to protect.

But it also means yiu can never see yourself as equals. I've worked security most of my life in some fashion and women and kids are always the priority. I protect them at all costs but I also never take them seriously or respect them as an equal. It wouldn't allow me to do my job properly if I did. To protect them I have to see women the way I see children.

Funny enough I treat them the same and get similar results but thats a different story for a different time.