I used to be super shy and quiet and as a result, most of my friends were women. I had trouble with men and could not catch anyone's eye. After discovering RPW and being in monk mode, I became much more social and warm to everyone around me. I've made a lot more female friends but also a lot more male friends, which is something I've never really had before. Some of them I'm interested in, some of them I'm not, but I'm taking it slow and definitely not rushing anything.

I know the red pill community is a bit wary of girls with lots of guy friends, but I noticed that being an overall friendly person just attracts everyone to you, men and women. Should I be more careful about having a lot of guy friends if it might lead to a negative perception of me, or should I just proceed with caution? I'm definitely not leading any of them on or anything, but I'm scared a potential LTR would be turned off by it.

I'd love to hear your input on this as this is unchartered territory for me and I don't really know how to act.