There was quite the response to my recent post: Are you still fucking other girls? (link in the comments)

I feel like the main point of the post missed with most commenters.

After the dust settled, one user posted a comment that spoke to the heart of the original post and to the overwhelming response.

u/whatsthisgarg

holy shit what a bunch of losers

Guy puts up a post with a very simple point about abundance mentality and outcome independence -- two of the most important and primary and so ironically most overlooked (hence motivation for the post) elements of TRP: should be easy.

In the post: woman places unreasonable conditions on future access to her un-unique hidden charms. Guy has other options and laughs. End of story.

Message to readers: maybe you're not there yet, but this is what abundance is like, it's a wonderful feeling, and it's a worthy goal, work for it.

 

In the comments:

20% got it. Maybe half of those got it because they have experienced it, and half got it because they have what's called reading comprehension. Well done.

20% (including some ECs ffs, yes, are there so many losers in that population?) said you "left ass on the table," and you could have intercoursed this non-special, imminently replaceable female 3 or 4 more times had you not flubbed your response. In other words, they totally missed the message.

20% focussed on how they thought you were still hung up on this chick, because you mentioned it happened at some time in the past, exhibiting their own lack of abundance. IE, missed the message.

20% predicted you would die lonely and alone LOL because you rejected this chick who had weird, out-of-place demands for you (like you should only have sex once a week and only with her because that's what she wants). To be charitable to these clowns, they are saying you will die lonely and alone because you will reject a series of women who have presumptuous and silly and uncompensated demands on you. Even worse. Also missing the message.

20% wanted to know and ONLY wanted to know what the gift was / what the weirdo stone in her bra was. In this case I will say maybe half got the message and were just mucking about and having a laugh, and the other half were total dweebs who really thought this was just a story and you left out the important part, IE missed the message.

In sum, perhaps 70% of commenters offered, in a post about abundance mentality and outcome independence, testimonials of personal non-abundance and massive outcome-dependence, and advocated that you should adopt their attitudes.

That sound you heard some time in the last year was the tanking of a sub.

Outcome independence and abundance mentality are like the compound lifts of the SMP. We can talk accessory work all day, but when push comes to shove, the truly strong will remain unfazed.

I advise everyone to build these muscles first, as a foundation.

It really is nice not giving a fuck.