I never noticed this until a little over three weeks ago after reading some race threads on TRP about the difficulty of getting white women. Just to be clear here, I am a white guy and mostly all of the girls I have been with were white, this is not about dating difficulties getting white girls. Being was raised in a small town and things like holding doors open for people were actually pushed on to me so I did it for a lot of my life. I still do it now for both males and females but then a thought came to me over a trend I have observed over the years. Now we are not talking dating or even friends, I mean random women that are just strangers who hardly even know me. I have seen this when other guys do it for women that are strangers as well.
Whenever I hold doors open for women that are minority/foreign, I receive some sort of kind gesture in return. A lot of the times it is a thank you and other times it is a smile. Their age does not matter either, almost all the time there is some sort of sign from them showing that they are grateful or thankful that someone did this for them.
With white women, the only time I get a good reaction is if they are elderly or old. Now with younger white women I have seen that the reaction is almost always a negative one. Either they keep on walking and ignore that someone held the door open for them or they give the guy some kind of a cold stare and keep on walking. Very rarely do I see a white girl that is young (or even middle aged white women these days for that matter) thank the guy or show some signs of gratefulness that a guy held the door open for them. Most of the times, these girls are not even in a rush, they are either on their cellphones or taking their time.
Odd thing to have some sort of epiphany about but it just made me think about the red pill after I noticed the trend. How can a culture of women raised by feminist equality (mainly white girls in that sense) just take it for granted that a guy will hold doors open for them. The entire dynamic must play out on a bigger scale as well when it comes to things such as LTRs and marriage. Sometimes I feel as if white western women are the reason this sub was even started and got so big.
Just makes me question the whole AWALT thing.
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