Hello everyone,
Edit: (if it adds to my street cred) I was an incel in high school. Lost my virginity when I was 19 to my 17 year old Filipino GF in the back of her mom’s Volvo station wagon. It was so easy I don’t even remember how I even did it. I guess I was just honey and she had nothing else to do. Literally
This isn't a Gen X vs Millenials post, this is more of the main difference between the two in this post-dating world.
Lots of advice gets thrown around here, the main one being LIFT. I think for Gen Xers, those that have been divorced raped, etc, probably are more receptive to this advice because chances are the GEN Xers came from a place before the school systems got truly taken over by liberal policies and ideologies, but have real experience with women at a time where the market place was still kind of in equilibrium. Getting a date was fairly easy, dating was actually fun in that you had to talk to her directly or on the phone to talk and figure out where to hang out. There was a lot more social interaction and frankly, there was no porn to keep the Gen Xers busy.
Now the millennials, they come at a time where the internet is pretty much where all socialization, validation and entertainment takes place, but the expense of a more intimate or one on one interaction. So what 20 years ago, if a guy wanted to talk to a girl, all he had to do was go up to her. But now, a guy can try to slide into her DMs, but with more choice and abundance on her end, the lack of interest or even if they interact, the young millennial doesn't really have opportunities to practice even just being around women. I am not saying Millenials don't approach, but they have a way different way of looking at the world and interacting with it because that's how they do in their generation. You grow up with parents shoving a phone in your face to keep you quiet or so your social circle doesn't ostracize you in high school.
The school systems too, being so full of shitty teachers and fat fucks (I was a teacher, not shitty, not fat, all the kids wanted my class so i was teaching an extra class after school making 85k buy my 6th year, two months off in summer, two weeks in the summer, two weeks in the winter, not a teacher no more - my qualifications)
Anyways, these kids, these boys, they are clumsy, unaware they are designed to be the top predators in the world, and the girls are more focused on makeup and not giving ing a shit about what's happening, cuz why, they are texting mofos from other schools. the reason I quit my job was because, well, i didn't see a future in education, but the takeaway here is that the next batch of the millennial are going to be even more fucked.
So how do I know this?
Just look at all the self improvement posts that talk about self improvement, or young men who haven't even had a relationship with a woman let alone spend 5 minutes with one decided they are all evil and manipulative, but it is not that.
It is just that the beta is manipulated, and the Millennial and the upcoming generation have a lot more beta in them, through indoctrination and being taught in the same way girls are.
I feel the advantage TRP GEN Xers have is because we at least got a taste of a semi semblance of what dating was, and I dare say the golden age of dating was in the late 90's. Even in high school, we had a fosters freeze, an ice cream parlor with all the latest video games and relatively safe parks to hang out at.
So the main difference I think between the two generations is that Gen X at least can look at TRP advice, information, and have actual life experience to draw upon it and make decisions based on the new knowledge and experience, and the younger crowd tend to be more nihilistic since not only do they not have life experience, but also haven't had a chance to make their mark, or even live on their own, making their own money.
The main advice I would have for both generation is to workout and eat healthy, but I dare say the younger ones tend to bitch the most because they have the power of youth, while the older guys tend to get serious about it, because as you get older, shitty habits can kill you.
But yea. Thanks for reading.
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