Introduction Okay, you read the sidebar, your eyes were opened, you internalized the pill and spun your first plate(s), but you can't seem to keep a woman from nagging about, “Where is this going?”, “I want something more”, “Why don't we hang out?”, etc... What can you do to stop the madness? The answer is simple, you can't and here's why.

You and Your Plate Have Conflicting Sexual Strategies Your goal is just sex and leave me alone. You're like Tupac in his song, Rather Be Ya Nigga. His lyrics might resonate with you:

“I don't wanna be her man, I wanna be her nigga you feel me?...I ain't beggin just trying to relocate between ya legs...You want a nigga, but think you can't have a nigga. Don't cheat yourself, instead treat yourself...You think you're happy with him but that's a lie, so give this thug a try. I'd rather be ya N-I-G-G-A (INN-EYE-GEE-GEE-AYE) , so we can get drunk and smoke weed all day. It don't matter if you're lonely baby. You need a thug in your life, cause busters ain't loving you right."

But what you don't understand is that women are never satisfied with just sex because they can get it anytime they want. Their next fuck is just one call, just one email, just one IM away. It's of no value to them because any unlimited resource is taken for granted. Sex for sex is a foreign concept to females. They always use their sexuality as a means to extract something from men whether it be provisioning, status, and/or commitment with the exception of one night stands (ONS).

Commitment Nagging is a Female Feature A woman will usually never stop clawing after your commitment and provisioning whether it be subtle or relentless. The only way to LOWER (not eradicate) these occurrences without giving more is if she already has a beta bux doing it for her (Ex. Women with boyfriends, husbands, highly invested orbiters). The exception being if she perceives your SMV to be dramatically higher than hers (e.g. You're famous) – she's just happy to even be in your presence. But even that is not always enough. In all other cases it will never stop so don't worry about her crying, whining, and other tactics to appeal to your provider instincts, they're inevitable. Many times it's just a shit test; deal with them accordingly.

Philosophy of Spinning Plates dr_warlock! If I can only decrease their occurrence, how do I optimize that? There's a reason why it's called spinning plates, and not spinning a plate. It's meant to be a continuous process of acquisition. It's a short term strategy that usually ends with the plate dropping on its own because she wants more. If one plate drops but you begin to spin another, it's as if a plate never dropped in the first place. In the big picture, no one plate really matters as long as you keep going.

How to Push Forward or End Relations The best way to keep moving is to either soft next her and game another, or subtly use her as a pre-selection prop to spin a new plate. If you choose to next her, I recommend you do it softly, politely, and be discreet. “Independent women” may announce the fact that they're not ashamed of their sexuality and a woman should be able to have as much as she wants like a guy without being labeled a slut and she doesn't care what people think. That's a lie. That declaration is for her, not the listener. It's just something a girl tells herself to rationalize her casual sex acts without her brain exploding from cognitive dissonance. Other examples include last minute resistance (LMR) such as, “I'm not like that”, “I'm not like other girls”, “We're not going to have sex tonight”, "We should take it slow”, etc, etc. When a female's sexual indiscretions are caught in the public spotlight or not properly set aside, she is likely to conjure up a hamster-generated story in attempt to deny her promiscuity to her self and masquerade it to others, sometimes at your expense (e.g. False domestic violence and rape accusation) – something out of revenge for not getting what her solipsism entitles her to and/or for attention.

Conclusion Leave girls better or the same as you found them. Don't let plates drop and shatter; put them in the dish washer.

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