Guys who aren’t that physically attractive, how do you do it?

I think in regards to overall attractiveness i’m in something of a grey area.

I’m not tall but not short either (bang average)

Sometimes I feel like I look very good and sometimes I feel like the ugliest guy around. Im 18 and only had sex once so far, I can get makeouts and “play” , sometimes I even get approached by girls from varying regions of the attractiveness spectrum, but this is pretty much always in party type scenarios where the girls have been drinking, so to me, this doesn’t count. In sober world it’s safe to say I’m invisible.

I lift and have a noticeably good physique, but i’m of the unpopular opinion that lifting doesn’t make you more attractive, still I do it anyway but I digress. So physically speaking, I pretty much have nothing going for me, but then again my social skills are pretty poor and I have low amounts of friends, tryna work on it but I wonder that maybe I don’t have many friends because I’m so unappealing, but that sounds like a copout. Phone is pretty much dry as the sahara 24/7 and I have no instagram (important if your’e young).

How do I work around my physical shortcomings.