We've all been there. No matter how smooth or charismatic the man may be, we've all had moments of brief insecurity and made the mistake of letting a woman see it. The ignorant, unlearned man wouldn't see a change in her demeanor until it was too late. An educated man well versed in body language and women would quickly see the impact his moment of weakness has having. It may be something as tiny as a smirk or look or change in demeanor but with each moment of insecurity built upon this one her behavior will change and grow more extreme with each occurrence.

So why is this? Why is it that, despite women saying they want their men to open up and share, they run away from insecure men they way men run away from women with blue hair?

Simple: you're making her regret ever following you. She followed your lead because she believed you would lead her to better places, you convinced her of that. Never forget the solipsism of women and that their actions and reactions always stem from how the world around them is making them feel at the time.

You being insecure and unsure of yourself puts a crack on the rock she leaned on for support. And with each crack you go closer to falling apart.

You may ask yourself "the Why does she try and convince me to open up" and the answer is as obvious as the one above it: to trick you, stupid.

Don't you do yiur best to try and get women to give their secrets away, to show you how big of a slut they are so you can know what you're dealing with. If you don't then you should be.