Girls says she never let a man pull her hair, grab her by the neck. Is she stroking my ego intentionally?

VasiliyZaitzev · 2019-12-02T13:09:41+00:00

There are two possibilities: either she's lying or she isn't.

It doesn't matter. Some people lie when it's totally optional. Women l frequently lie to men to not seem like sluts. They lie about their N-count, they lie about that time they got railed out at a party by 5 guys, they lie because it's fucking Tuesday.

So its entirely likely that she is here. But who knows? She's not yours, it's just your turn, so enjoy.

pilot333 · 2019-12-02T15:45:02+00:00

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bertonesce · 2019-12-02T13:26:19+00:00

Usually they will lie about sexuality to make you feel special or to avoid being perceived slutty and/or avoid losing commitment. Be smarter than her.

W_O_M_B_A_T · 2019-12-02T15:26:48+00:00

Who cares?

Who cares if she's telling the truth or not?

Is she fucking you good, the ways you like to fuck?

If yes, then no problem. If no, then come back and ask us for advice.

kclanton80 · 2019-12-02T15:09:57+00:00

Sometimes it's actually true. Sometimes it's a lie. You have no way to know so your question is pointless.

Women don't come out the womb having been choked with their hair pulled and spanked. So at some point someone is the first to do it right?

Most guys don't get bold enough to do that to a woman until they have had a fair amount of experience. So it's not uncommon that early on that woman will not have experience those things, even after multiple partners.

PhaedrusHunt · 2019-12-02T18:14:39+00:00

Take it to the next level. Tie this chick up. Gag her. Stick but plugs in her. Make her ask for permission cum.

Sounds like a sub that wants a dom.

See how far you can take it.

Bring in other chicks.

Hell if you're super lucky you might have a cuckqueen on your hand.

You may be able to end up telling her stuff like if you keep misbehaving I'm not going to fuck other girls in front of you anymore.

See where it goes she seems to have the right mentality for it.

Truedemocracy5 · 2019-12-02T17:59:31+00:00

You know how every girl you fuck on the first date or have a ONS with says “I never do this” or “I’m not this type of girl usually”

It’s like that.

Red_Pill_Brotherhood · 2019-12-02T20:02:23+00:00

Virtue signalling "Im a good girl, Ive never done this..." Bullshit.

I was recently sexting with a chick who looks like a total slut online and she said "Ive never sent nudes before" looool bitch please.

KinkysMT · 2019-12-02T17:45:36+00:00

If she comes back for more she's not lying. Had some girls tell me the same stuff or "you're the first who can make me cum" and they all came back for more and become plates.

And remember that most dudes even alpha natural ones just do regular missionary vanilla sex.

UEMcGill · 2019-12-02T21:17:49+00:00

Never listen to a woman's words. Look at her actions and ask yourself, "What does this say about her? How does this reflect on me?"

She isn't telling you this, because she wants you to hear it. She's telling you this because she wants to believe it herself.

A woman communicates feeling and emotion primarily, and information and fact second (generally reserve fact and information for when she is forced to communicate that way).

Just like they will openly say, "I never had sex with that guy" but she sucked his dick 4 times, in her mind, "I didn't put his dick in my vagina so I don't feel like it counts"

I've had women completely misrepresent something that happened with me, to my face. When called on it, "Hey you know I was there when you were begging to put my dick in your ass?!?" they suddenly changed the story to comply with the feeling.

"Well I know I say I don't like Anal, but we were on vacation and the mood was different"

It still fits her narrative of how she feels right now.

In her head when she says it right there and right then she may very well believe it. Her hamster will run on the rationalization wheel of truth until it meets her narrative, and therefore is true.

"I used to let a biker choke me, but we were never committed, so it didn't happen"

"I once told a one night stand to pull my hair, but I never saw him again, so it's not a regular thing"

"I let a dude paint my face with his baby batter, so that's not technically coming in my mouth"

So in her mind, you're a dude, who's regularly done those things to her, and she honestly thinks, "I've never allowed a man to do those things to me, [who I feel this way about]"

She says it with conviction because she's convinced herself, not you.

redhawkes · 2019-12-02T19:29:33+00:00

she's lying to play with my ego.

Yep, it's called girls game. Stroking your ego is the best manipulation.

HurricaneHugues · 2019-12-03T16:33:12+00:00

Don't believe what comes out of her mouth. That same mouth saying those words that you build your manly throne on is that same mouth that will say the words that will drown you and your throne. Just don't taie any of it seriously. Who cares if you really are the first she did that with? What do you gain in life from it besides a dangerous ego boost?

i-am-the-prize · 2019-12-02T18:06:34+00:00

the "whether she's lying or not" replies cover that angle. Here's another angle:

if she's new to D/s and this is pushing some boundaries, and she's not complaining, just be sure to be offering some additional comfort afterwards. This could be her way of being overt asking for such comfort.

like, infer: "hey, i'm trusting you and you're leading me to places i haven't gone before, and after the heat of the moment I'm a little freaked out by it and feel slutty..." etc , etc Comfort is king post boundary pushing.

30dirtyfingers · 2019-12-02T13:28:30+00:00

Could be either one. Had a girl that fit your description tell me the same thing. Dont put too much stock in things like this anyway. I mean, dont call her out on it (and if you do, do it playfully) but dont take it to heart either.

Remember: Fuck what she says, watch what she does.

Title	Girls says she never let a man pull her hair, grab her by the neck. Is she stroking my ego intentionally?
Author	zav25
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Date	December 2, 2019 1:03 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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